If life is so great then why are you on a site about parenting?? Make it make sense Cecil. |
Maybe you could adopt or foster. I get wanting the grandparent experience, but at the expense of your child that doesn't want one? Focus on what you can control. |
They were not planned. Sex once for each in a bad marriage conceived years apart. No sex in between. The first was forced. I did not do this too myself. I considered abortion but was raised too religiously. It was done to trap me I marriage. Eventually I divorced. |
I would be devastated if my child didn't have kids. While I'd love to have them for my own selfish wants, I'd be more worried about how lonely it would be for DC in old age. |
I would feel relieved. My/our life has been very difficult. Kids affect every other experience we can have in this life. I would be happy to support their choice. |
Please don’t project these worries on to your child. |
Different poster here, but I stumbled on this board via a Google search on Hilaria Baldwin. The rest is history, but to be honest, reading the hundreds of threads posted by unhappy parents in unhappy marriages or coparenting with hostile ex spouses definitely removes any tiny doubts I might have still held about whether I missed out by not parenting. I spend most of my time reading threads on other topics, in particular on teaching because I was considering a midlife career change into teaching - but reading here was invaluable in helping me decide not to pursue that path. Thanks, teachers and parents of DCUM! |
This |
Mind your business. |
If you don’t want people’s opinions, don’t post on a public forum. |
I didn't ask for your opinion. I responded to the OP. And, frankly, the PP made a lot of assumptions and was preachy. It was unnecessary. As is your comment. |
You are going to get blamed. Trust me. My friend was party person who did not want kids.
He retired early as planned at 48 and bored silly as no one to hang out with. He argued with wife she should have not listened to him and just got pregnant. Now in retirement they will be all alone. He went back to work and was taking boat out and she did not want to go. He argued again and she said I should have just listened to your mom. He goes what? She goes your mom I talked to about this as I kinda might want kids. She said my son is stupid, just skip birth control and have a kid once here he will love it. He then at 52 got on phone yelling at mother age should have pushed harder. He is turning 60 now and they sit alone in an empty house now that both retired. I find it rarely two people don’t want kids. My this one person who pushes other on the fence into it |
That looked like it was written by AI. |
Well in case it wasn't, the universe thanks them for not having kids. |
The white race is checking out. Leaving earth. Things are on the verge of collapse and the anti-Christ is coming. |