Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Maybe your other kid can get a ride home from the game or go home with a friend for awhile. A 9 yr old doesn’t belong at a preschool party
It sounds like it’s a public play place so there likely are already going to be 9 year olds there.
I’ve had to bring a sibling in the past. I emailed the host a heads up that in order to bring my invited child, I’d also have to bring a sibling along, but we would pay separately and my older child would do their own thing separate of the party. Turns out the host had an older child the same age as mine (and they knew each other from school) so they were like that bring him, [birthday boy]’s older brother will be glad to have another same aged kid to play with. The host paid his admission ahead of time, which was kind but totally unnecessary. I would have been happy to pay.
If it were a privately rented venue like Little Gym where it was *only* younger kids there though we probably would have skipped the party since I didn’t have childcare for my older kid. Or I’d make my 9 y/o come along and sit on the outside of the little kid activity with a book or iPad. Not sure why anyone would care about that. He would understand he isn’t a party guest and would not expect cake or anything from the little kids.