If you are straight and in a marriage/ltr, is your partner/spouse an upgrade from what your mom/dad was able to marry or a downgrade?
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Upgrade in what way? Financially? Looks? |
Huge upgrade but that wasn't difficult achieve. |
+1. Your question is too broad, OP. Intelligence? Money? Looks? Lifestyle? Job? Could be anything. |
In whatever way you want to take the question |
It is intentionally broad Take it whatever direction you want to go |
Yes for me and no for my brother's spouses |
+2 both have different positive qualities and thankfully it outnumbers the negative. |
Which renders the question meaningless since most responders likely won't specify and it will be different things for different people. |
I adored my dad but my husband was far more successful. But that doesn’t make him a better person. I’m lucky to have had two wonderful men in my life. |
lol what kind of question is this? |
Upgrade in terms of every possible personal quality, downgrade in terms of finances. I'm far better off in my marriage than my mother was in hers. |
Massive upgrade.
I went from an abusive father to a respectful, loving husband. He wouldn’t be “good enough” by DCUM standards for many posters on here but he’s a great father and partner. |
My parents have a better marriage but we are doing better financially |
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