Did you upgrade or downgrade compared to your mom/dad?
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Anonymous
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If you are straight and in a marriage/ltr, is your partner/spouse an upgrade from what your mom/dad was able to marry or a downgrade?
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Anonymous
Upgrade in what way? Financially? Looks? |
Anonymous
| Huge upgrade but that wasn't difficult achieve. |
Anonymous
+1. Your question is too broad, OP. Intelligence? Money? Looks? Lifestyle? Job? Could be anything. |
Anonymous
In whatever way you want to take the question |
Anonymous
It is intentionally broad Take it whatever direction you want to go |
Anonymous
| Yes for me and no for my brother's spouses |
Anonymous
+2 both have different positive qualities and thankfully it outnumbers the negative. |
Anonymous
Which renders the question meaningless since most responders likely won't specify and it will be different things for different people. |
Anonymous
| I adored my dad but my husband was far more successful. But that doesn’t make him a better person. I’m lucky to have had two wonderful men in my life. |
Anonymous
| lol what kind of question is this? |
Anonymous
| Upgrade in terms of every possible personal quality, downgrade in terms of finances. I'm far better off in my marriage than my mother was in hers. |
Anonymous
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Massive upgrade.
I went from an abusive father to a respectful, loving husband. He wouldn’t be “good enough” by DCUM standards for many posters on here but he’s a great father and partner. |
Anonymous
| My parents have a better marriage but we are doing better financially |
Anonymous
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