PP, you're BRAVE! I would never be able to do this myself... Yup, my doc said that to save some to take right before my period starts so the BM supply won't drop. I remember going from 4oz to 1oz the days before my period when I pumped. Thanks for sharing your experience. |
Thanks a lot for your concern, PP. The play is laid out and I wont' make the same mistakes again My doc is familiar with my history and very comfortable with the approach I chose. We'll have more help this time around and hopefully this time things will go smoothly. |
I can't believe I actually found something useful in this thread. Thank you PP. I had the same issue and although I'm done having kids, I will try the Folic acid. |
Eh, tastes like chicken. |
There are actually women who eat their placentas???? Wow, I thought I was pretty crunchy, but this is disgusting. |
Agreed - I don't have opinions either way on placenta consumption, but I have opinions on nasty, hostile people who are off their rocker. OP, you aren't "misunderstood" like one PP suggested. You are mean. You keep coming back and saying really mean things; no one can be misunderstood THAT many times. |
Holy crap. Do you really need this spelled out for you? Who but an expectant mother has ready access to a placenta in the near future? |
You didn't read the OP, did you? Read again the original question and see if your suggestion really makes sense. |
17:24 again - the physician who told you to fortify yourself against ppd and get another consult on your anemia... i will temporarily ignore your venom and try to give you some advice i hope helps you through this time...
first, another hematology consult is not a waste. a good friend of mine, a physician, no less, had SIX miscarriages and thought she had had the most thorough work up ever with multiple practices. while in infertility treatments, her Drs realized she had not been tested for the MTHFR gene - a gene that promotes clotting and is well known to cause miscarriages. once it was recognized, she was put on blood thinners and went on to have 2 healthy pregnancies and babies. Like the poster above who found out she had a thallesemia, you, too, may have a GENETIC issue that is causing a low blood count, and depending on your age or what hematology practice you are with, they may not have thought to check you for genetic causes of anemia - perhaps they are looking for nutritional causes or focusing on your pregnancy right now or, if you're a bit older, and this seems to ave come out nowhere, they doubt that its genetic and has been present your whole life. but there are many conditions that "bloom" in pregnancy and post-partum and anemia is certainly one of them. second, i'm glad you have a plan for your ppd. if you need recommendations on ppd therapists, look into Georgetown's Women and fertility group - they do amazing work with post-partum women. i should know; i was treated by them. third, your posts raise quite a few red flags - i think you should share this thread with your therapist (i am hoping you are already seeing her/him)... you state you were concerned about dropping your baby, but then locked the balcony door and put a bookshelf in front of it - that indicates to me that it was more than a fear of accidental dropping, but that you had to put barriers in your way b/c you *might* have felt you would purposely drop her - no judgment at all - just a note that your PPd was probably more severe than you recollect. you also react quite angrily - noting the ppd, you said something like "where were all of you when i was crying in my room?" - well, this is an anonymous forum; you should not count on us for physical immediate support. this is a place to find answers, but perhaps not the best place to find confidantes. you continue to react angrily to many things - bringing up aresenic in formula and saying how you never want to have a blood transfusion - you sound so conflicted and confused - while "breast is best," formula should probably not be vilified to the degree it often is on this forum (and in your posts); it obviously helped your first child SURVIVE when you did not have enough supply - and it looks like you are a person with supply issues (you talk about needing fenugreek tablets a lot): so one has to ask, if "nature" is best, of we are all "meant" to eat our placentas because all animals do, then why or why didn't you enough breastmilk? what is wrong with you? why should you have to take any kind of supplement? the human body is meant to nourish a child, so if it can't, does that mean that child should be left to starve, or, worse, to die? since i have great supply, should my children survive and yours die? guess what? NO! because we are not only mammals, but humans who were given reason and opposible thumbs and large brains and the capacity to make substitutes to breast milk for those who could not, or do not wish, to nurse their young. and that is wonderful. that is wonderful. as is how we have advanced as a society where we encourage the donation of our BLOOD to random strangers so that their lives might go on (no other mammalian species is altruistic to this degree). but, note, you are welcome to refuse blood - that is your right; you can even refuse it on admission to the maternity ward when the consent papers come so that your wishes are known for an emergency situation - so, if you are comatose or worse, the physicians can know it was your wish never to receive a blood transfusion. and if you feel so strongly about blood, then i hope you refuse it, so that it can be spared for someone who needs, and wants, and values, it. and, last, what is found in nature (like eating the placenta) is not always best - many examples above - but what i remember most from my childhood is watching my hamster eat her first little. |
Bwaaahahahaha! I thought it when I read this, just didn't say it. And the PC police are coming for us.... |
My dog ate half of her first litter when I was a kid. That is a nutritional option. |
8:55, it is so, so kind of you to come back and write such a long response even after the OP was so hostile towards you earlier. It sounds like you're a great doctor and a compassionate person - I don't think I would have come back and given my time to the OP the way you did. |
That's reasuring |
OP needs a complete personality transplant. |
OP, get some therapy. You are really mean and emotionally all over the place. I can't imagine eating anything that's going to make a bigger difference than actually finding a trained mental health professional to talk to.
Really, for the sake of your kids, get help. |