Anonymous wrote:When you left one job for another, did you get a salary increase? You bet your sweet derriere you did. Same for nannies. You pay for her experience because she will be using this experience to taking care of your precious snowffakes.

Anonymous wrote:OP, it's pretty clear that you two are not a match. You don't need all that she offers. I also think that you won't be able to convince her that she should take your job for less than she wants, it would be a recipe for disaster. Just move on, there's tons of nannies out there who are happy to leave the holiday decorations to you.