Anonymous
10/31/2019 12:42
Subject: Nanny bonus on last day
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
Whatever you say troll. I guess you work for free and appreciate your boss giving you a card instead of an actual bonus. All of your friends have nannies, so you are getting one too. Yep, this sounds about right. No one is obsessed with the Uber wealthy and celebrities except you (as you keep mentioning them). You are dense and for whatever reason think nannies are something everyone has no matter the cost. You don’t actually value nannies as you are intent on not seeing the position as a luxury position most cannot actually afford (oh the entitlement of it all). Your standards for care are probably low and you are looking for a warm body to watch your child (more like a babysitter who will also work for peanuts). So with that, you make complete sense. Your bubble works for you so carry on.
We don't make "bonuses" in my field, but no, I would not work for free. I never suggested nannies should work for free or be paid peanuts. You need to work on your reading comprehension skills. You have no idea what I make, but it's cute of you to tell me I can't afford a nanny and will treat one poorly just because I'm suggesting that in fact some non-wealthy people do use nannies and I think that's okay. I never said that all families can afford a nanny, just that nannies are not just for the wealthy (your words). Again, work on reading comprehension skills. However, as long as a family can afford to pay a reasonable nanny's salary, even if they have to sacrifice and pinch to do it, and the nanny understands the family is not wealthy and can't afford to give a lavish bonuses or gifts and wants to work for them anyway, I see no problem with this. If you do have a problem with this, I really wonder why. Perhaps it's because you harbor some disdain for non-wealthy families? Peace out, angry one.
The only person angry here is you. The only person who cannot read or comprehend is you. You have been angry since your first post. You keep contradicting yourself and making excuses. I harbor disdain for people who live in a fantasy world and want to keep up with the Joneses. I didn’t have to suggest anything, your responses said it all. Your back peddling did as well. Thanks for proving the point. Peace out, bubble life.
Anonymous
10/31/2019 12:41
Subject: Nanny bonus on last day
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
Whatever you say troll. I guess you work for free and appreciate your boss giving you a card instead of an actual bonus. All of your friends have nannies, so you are getting one too. Yep, this sounds about right. No one is obsessed with the Uber wealthy and celebrities except you (as you keep mentioning them). You are dense and for whatever reason think nannies are something everyone has no matter the cost. You don’t actually value nannies as you are intent on not seeing the position as a luxury position most cannot actually afford (oh the entitlement of it all). Your standards for care are probably low and you are looking for a warm body to watch your child (more like a babysitter who will also work for peanuts). So with that, you make complete sense. Your bubble works for you so carry on.
We don't make "bonuses" in my field, but no, I would not work for free. I never suggested nannies should work for free or be paid peanuts. You need to work on your reading comprehension skills. You have no idea what I make, but it's cute of you to tell me I can't afford a nanny and will treat one poorly just because I'm suggesting that in fact some non-wealthy people do use nannies and I think that's okay. I never said that all families can afford a nanny, just that nannies are not just for the wealthy (your words). Again, work on reading comprehension skills. However, as long as a family can afford to pay a reasonable nanny's salary, even if they have to sacrifice and pinch to do it, and the nanny understands the family is not wealthy and can't afford to give a lavish bonuses or gifts and wants to work for them anyway, I see no problem with this. If you do have a problem with this, I really wonder why. Perhaps it's because you harbor some disdain for non-wealthy families? Peace out, angry one.
The only person angry here is you. The only person who cannot read or comprehend is you. You have been angry since your first post. You keep contradicting yourself and making excuses. I harbor sustain for people who live in a fantasy world and want to keep up with the Joneses. I didn’t have to suggest anything, your responses said it all. Your back peddling did as well. Thanks for proving the point. Peace out, bubble life.
Anonymous
10/31/2019 11:28
Subject: Nanny bonus on last day
Anonymous wrote:
Whatever you say troll. I guess you work for free and appreciate your boss giving you a card instead of an actual bonus. All of your friends have nannies, so you are getting one too. Yep, this sounds about right. No one is obsessed with the Uber wealthy and celebrities except you (as you keep mentioning them). You are dense and for whatever reason think nannies are something everyone has no matter the cost. You don’t actually value nannies as you are intent on not seeing the position as a luxury position most cannot actually afford (oh the entitlement of it all). Your standards for care are probably low and you are looking for a warm body to watch your child (more like a babysitter who will also work for peanuts). So with that, you make complete sense. Your bubble works for you so carry on.
We don't make "bonuses" in my field, but no, I would not work for free. I never suggested nannies should work for free or be paid peanuts. You need to work on your reading comprehension skills. You have no idea what I make, but it's cute of you to tell me I can't afford a nanny and will treat one poorly just because I'm suggesting that in fact some non-wealthy people do use nannies and I think that's okay. I never said that all families can afford a nanny, just that nannies are not just for the wealthy (your words). Again, work on reading comprehension skills. However, as long as a family can afford to pay a reasonable nanny's salary, even if they have to sacrifice and pinch to do it, and the nanny understands the family is not wealthy and can't afford to give a lavish bonuses or gifts and wants to work for them anyway, I see no problem with this. If you do have a problem with this, I really wonder why. Perhaps it's because you harbor some disdain for non-wealthy families? Peace out, angry one.
Anonymous
10/31/2019 06:08
Subject: Nanny bonus on last day
Anonymous wrote:Nice try at spinning your argument but nope it won’t work. From your very own post, “ And no, nannies are not the top tier of luxury care. What universe do you live in?“
Hiring a nanny period is the top tier. Coming to your home is meeting the greater demands you fool. It’s private, in home, one on one care for your child. Why would that even be affordable? Someone is coming to your house to raise your kids. Does that sound like a service that would be cheap? You are absolutely right that not everyone can afford a nanny or in home physician (again, who are these services aimed toward). That’s why there is daycare and places like Kaiser. You seem to think you deserve a nanny even if it means paying them low. I don’t understand why you are, oh so offended, when someone says you cannot afford a nanny. You can’t. Go to daycare. Honestly your response just proves you are trolling.
I'm not offended, just very amused. I've been interviewing some candidates and have a couple of very nice women in mind who seem pleasant and willing to work with us even though we are neither billionaires nor celebrities. Neither candidate has a masters degree. Neither speaks french fluently nor will they play Chopin nocturnes to lull Larlo and Larla to sleep. They do seem engaging and qualified though. In my circle of friends, almost everyone has a nanny and almost nobody uses daycare. As far as I know, none of these families are uber-wealthy, nor do they think of their nannies as "the top tier of luxury care." I guess nobody got your memo. Everyone gives bonuses according to their means, and that seems to be well understood by the people who agree to work for them. Obviously the business owners and attorneys will give different gifts than the academics or musicians. I didn't make the $1000 suggestion for a goodbye gift, that was somebody else, but I see no problem if this is what a family can afford as a gift and if the nanny understands that and has a good relationship with them. There are other ways to show your appreciation and gratitude to another human being besides cash. You may not understand this, but not everyone is as materialistic as you apparently are, given your obsession with "top-level luxury care," celebrities, and the uber-wealthy.
Whatever you say troll. I guess you work for free and appreciate your boss giving you a card instead of an actual bonus. All of your friends have nannies, so you are getting one too. Yep, this sounds about right. No one is obsessed with the Uber wealthy and celebrities except you (as you keep mentioning them). You are dense and for whatever reason think nannies are something everyone has no matter the cost. You don’t actually value nannies as you are intent on not seeing the position as a luxury position most cannot actually afford (oh the entitlement of it all). Your standards for care are probably low and you are looking for a warm body to watch your child (more like a babysitter who will also work for peanuts). So with that, you make complete sense. Your bubble works for you so carry on.
Anonymous
10/30/2019 21:13
Subject: Nanny bonus on last day
Nice try at spinning your argument but nope it won’t work. From your very own post, “ And no, nannies are not the top tier of luxury care. What universe do you live in?“
Hiring a nanny period is the top tier. Coming to your home is meeting the greater demands you fool. It’s private, in home, one on one care for your child. Why would that even be affordable? Someone is coming to your house to raise your kids. Does that sound like a service that would be cheap? You are absolutely right that not everyone can afford a nanny or in home physician (again, who are these services aimed toward). That’s why there is daycare and places like Kaiser. You seem to think you deserve a nanny even if it means paying them low. I don’t understand why you are, oh so offended, when someone says you cannot afford a nanny. You can’t. Go to daycare. Honestly your response just proves you are trolling.
Hiring a nanny period is the top tier. Coming to your home is meeting the greater demands you fool. It’s private, in home, one on one care for your child. Why would that even be affordable? Someone is coming to your house to raise your kids. Does that sound like a service that would be cheap? You are absolutely right that not everyone can afford a nanny or in home physician (again, who are these services aimed toward). That’s why there is daycare and places like Kaiser. You seem to think you deserve a nanny even if it means paying them low. I don’t understand why you are, oh so offended, when someone says you cannot afford a nanny. You can’t. Go to daycare. Honestly your response just proves you are trolling.
I'm not offended, just very amused. I've been interviewing some candidates and have a couple of very nice women in mind who seem pleasant and willing to work with us even though we are neither billionaires nor celebrities. Neither candidate has a masters degree. Neither speaks french fluently nor will they play Chopin nocturnes to lull Larlo and Larla to sleep. They do seem engaging and qualified though. In my circle of friends, almost everyone has a nanny and almost nobody uses daycare. As far as I know, none of these families are uber-wealthy, nor do they think of their nannies as "the top tier of luxury care." I guess nobody got your memo. Everyone gives bonuses according to their means, and that seems to be well understood by the people who agree to work for them. Obviously the business owners and attorneys will give different gifts than the academics or musicians. I didn't make the $1000 suggestion for a goodbye gift, that was somebody else, but I see no problem if this is what a family can afford as a gift and if the nanny understands that and has a good relationship with them. There are other ways to show your appreciation and gratitude to another human being besides cash. You may not understand this, but not everyone is as materialistic as you apparently are, given your obsession with "top-level luxury care," celebrities, and the uber-wealthy.
Anonymous
10/30/2019 11:22
Subject: Re:Nanny bonus on last day
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Not the PP but to answer the question about “luxury childcare”, I would say that the wealthiest people I know have an educated nanny with the minimum of a bachelors degree in Early Childhood Education or Development and years of teaching experience as well as a special skill like fluency in French or talent in music or teaching music.
Like the governesses of old.
So a qualified nanny. Thanks.
All depends on your definition of “qualified”. Many believe that just experience caring for children means you are qualified. Even daycare teachers only need 18 college credits in child education and care to be teachers.