Anonymous
07/23/2014 22:19
Subject: MB cried hysterically
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Op here.
I was not in any way proud if making my mb so upset. When I posted it was kind of a "this is what happened and I'm feel weird about it" post. At no point did I feel happy for screwing over MB and I know it is bad. I don't want anyone to tell me that I'm right and she is wrong. I guess I posted hoping to analyze the situation.
All of your posts suggest the opposite. Maybe you've had time to reflect and you realize that and now you actually appear to be acting like a normal human being
+1
Anonymous
07/22/2014 08:21
Subject: MB cried hysterically
Anonymous wrote:Op here.
I was not in any way proud if making my mb so upset. When I posted it was kind of a "this is what happened and I'm feel weird about it" post. At no point did I feel happy for screwing over MB and I know it is bad. I don't want anyone to tell me that I'm right and she is wrong. I guess I posted hoping to analyze the situation.
All of your posts suggest the opposite. Maybe you've had time to reflect and you realize that and now you actually appear to be acting like a normal human being
Anonymous
07/21/2014 22:31
Subject: Re:MB cried hysterically
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Gosh, OP I just don't see the crime here. You had no choice but to go and it seems cruel to bash you for not make a decision that was not an option. If you posted that you expected them to hold the position for an indeterminate period of time then the MBs would accuse you of being selfish. I think you did the most straightforward thing possible. There is justice in honest.
There are a few people here who said she did the wrong thing but I think what the majority of people have a problem with is not what she did or how she did it, it's her reaction to her MBs reaction that is the problem and OP has yet to address any of the posters who mentioned this.
OP, no one really thinks you shouldn't be leaving. No one really thinks you need to give you MB more notice. I think you came on here expecting people to say "Oh poor you, I can't believe your MB cried when you are the one with the sick family member. What an awful MB." No one is going to say that because that is ridiculous. I'm sorry you have a sick family member, I'm sorry you have to leave immediately and I'm also sorry that your MB is now in a position to have to find a replacement on really short notice. I'm not blaming you for the short notice but you can't expect your MB to just say "ok, no big deal" and move on.
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Anonymous
07/21/2014 00:34
Subject: MB cried hysterically
Op here.
I was not in any way proud if making my mb so upset. When I posted it was kind of a "this is what happened and I'm feel weird about it" post. At no point did I feel happy for screwing over MB and I know it is bad. I don't want anyone to tell me that I'm right and she is wrong. I guess I posted hoping to analyze the situation.
I was not in any way proud if making my mb so upset. When I posted it was kind of a "this is what happened and I'm feel weird about it" post. At no point did I feel happy for screwing over MB and I know it is bad. I don't want anyone to tell me that I'm right and she is wrong. I guess I posted hoping to analyze the situation.
Anonymous
07/20/2014 15:31
Subject: Re:MB cried hysterically
Anonymous wrote:Gosh, OP I just don't see the crime here. You had no choice but to go and it seems cruel to bash you for not make a decision that was not an option. If you posted that you expected them to hold the position for an indeterminate period of time then the MBs would accuse you of being selfish. I think you did the most straightforward thing possible. There is justice in honest.
There are a few people here who said she did the wrong thing but I think what the majority of people have a problem with is not what she did or how she did it, it's her reaction to her MBs reaction that is the problem and OP has yet to address any of the posters who mentioned this.
OP, no one really thinks you shouldn't be leaving. No one really thinks you need to give you MB more notice. I think you came on here expecting people to say "Oh poor you, I can't believe your MB cried when you are the one with the sick family member. What an awful MB." No one is going to say that because that is ridiculous. I'm sorry you have a sick family member, I'm sorry you have to leave immediately and I'm also sorry that your MB is now in a position to have to find a replacement on really short notice. I'm not blaming you for the short notice but you can't expect your MB to just say "ok, no big deal" and move on.
Anonymous
07/20/2014 15:01
Subject: MB cried hysterically
My MB cried when I gave notice as well.
However I gave her 8 weeks notice. Not gonna lie, is kind of shitty of you to only give her one week.
However I gave her 8 weeks notice. Not gonna lie, is kind of shitty of you to only give her one week.
Anonymous
07/20/2014 01:58
Subject: Re:MB cried hysterically
Gosh, OP I just don't see the crime here. You had no choice but to go and it seems cruel to bash you for not make a decision that was not an option. If you posted that you expected them to hold the position for an indeterminate period of time then the MBs would accuse you of being selfish. I think you did the most straightforward thing possible. There is justice in honest.
Anonymous
07/20/2014 00:15
Subject: MB cried hysterically
Op here again.
Like I said, I am not sockpuppeting, you can feel free to ask Jeff.
Like I said, I am not sockpuppeting, you can feel free to ask Jeff.
Anonymous
07/19/2014 21:26
Subject: MB cried hysterically
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP, no matter what you did, certain people here will rip you to shreds. It's called "The Mommy Fight Site."
You are the OP - stop pretending to be other posters!!! I'm actually embarrassed for you!
Nope. Guess again, fool.
PP is right - you make the same punctuation mistakes as the OP. Please stop posting. You had your fun now let it go.
- a nanny.
Wrong again. Ask admin if you like, silly.
Anonymous
07/19/2014 21:21
Subject: MB cried hysterically
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP, no matter what you did, certain people here will rip you to shreds. It's called "The Mommy Fight Site."
You are the OP - stop pretending to be other posters!!! I'm actually embarrassed for you!
Nope. Guess again, fool.
PP is right - you make the same punctuation mistakes as the OP. Please stop posting. You had your fun now let it go.
- a nanny.
Anonymous
07/19/2014 21:14
Subject: MB cried hysterically
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP, no matter what you did, certain people here will rip you to shreds. It's called "The Mommy Fight Site."
You are the OP - stop pretending to be other posters!!! I'm actually embarrassed for you!
Nope. Guess again, fool.
Anonymous
07/19/2014 21:05
Subject: MB cried hysterically
Anonymous wrote:OP, no matter what you did, certain people here will rip you to shreds. It's called "The Mommy Fight Site."
You are the OP - stop pretending to be other posters!!! I'm actually embarrassed for you!
Anonymous
07/19/2014 21:04
Subject: MB cried hysterically
Anonymous wrote:Op here.
1. I have not pretended to be a different person on here.
2. It is not all about me, but it is about my family. Having to call an agency or missing work is not on the same level as having a family member dying.
3. I said to MB before quitting (about a week before), that I was having trouble and would need to likely go home. It was then that she could have started thinking about her family. I am not in charge of looking out for everyone's best interests.
4. As stated before, some MBs would have no problem doing the same to a nanny.
1. You are lying. All of your different personas made the same grammatical mistakes.
2. Another lie - this entire thread is all about you.
3. You're lying again - you never mentioned this before now.
4. What other people do wrong is no justification for you to do wrong. Didn't you learn that in first grade?
You are a tiresome, narcissistic bore. Go back to your country and stay. You are one of the people who give nannies a bad name.
I'm done with you and your ridiculous, self-serving thread.
Anonymous
07/19/2014 20:56
Subject: MB cried hysterically
OP, no matter what you did, certain people here will rip you to shreds. It's called "The Mommy Fight Site."
Anonymous
07/19/2014 20:53
Subject: MB cried hysterically
Op here.
1. I have not pretended to be a different person on here.
2. It is not all about me, but it is about my family. Having to call an agency or missing work is not on the same level as having a family member dying.
3. I said to MB before quitting (about a week before), that I was having trouble and would need to likely go home. It was then that she could have started thinking about her family. I am not in charge of looking out for everyone's best interests.
4. As stated before, some MBs would have no problem doing the same to a nanny.
1. I have not pretended to be a different person on here.
2. It is not all about me, but it is about my family. Having to call an agency or missing work is not on the same level as having a family member dying.
3. I said to MB before quitting (about a week before), that I was having trouble and would need to likely go home. It was then that she could have started thinking about her family. I am not in charge of looking out for everyone's best interests.
4. As stated before, some MBs would have no problem doing the same to a nanny.