Anonymous wrote:I see these kinds of threads all the time and think the real issue is that OP, and many other nannies feel insecure about their jobs. So the best thing to say is ' I am NOT a maid', and thus feel better about themselves by putting down another working role. I think that is why many get do hung up on contracts and job descriptions. As a former nanny and current professional I can tell you that my job description, in crunch time means nothing. We pick up slack and do what our boss needs all the time.
If OP had posted that her family wanted her to do landscaping or watch the neighborhood kids, then I would see the point. But cleaning a car the nanny drives, is within a reasonable scope of employment.
Anonymous wrote:I see these kinds of threads all the time and think the real issue is that OP, and many other nannies feel insecure about their jobs. So the best thing to say is ' I am NOT a maid', and thus feel better about themselves by putting down another working role. I think that is why many get do hung up on contracts and job descriptions. As a former nanny and current professional I can tell you that my job description, in crunch time means nothing. We pick up slack and do what our boss needs all the time.
If OP had posted that her family wanted her to do landscaping or watch the neighborhood kids, then I would see the point. But cleaning a car the nanny drives, is within a reasonable scope of employment.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:WOW! This forum is as extremist as a political forum! Some MBs think all nannies feel entitled and take advantage of their employers. Some nannies feel that MBs are abusing their children if they don't keep the nanny that doesn't fit well into the family. Neither of these views are accurate and I wouldn't want any part of these relationships!
OP, YOU were very unclear in your original post. You are also obviously angry and defensive. You are not displaying the ability to have an intellectual discussion regarding the matter. IF I was proactive in keeping the mess out of the car when it was in my use, I would be upset as well, but I wouldn't throw a fit. I would use the nap time one day to clean the car thoroughly. I would then be sure that the children and I kept it clean, including occasionally wiping it down. If the family trashed it on their time, I would not clean it out again. I would offer to take it and have it detailed and explain my reasoning in a kind and professional manner. It sounds as though they are giving you additional tasks that you are unhappy with and that you are looking to move forward. Hope things work out for you better in your next family.
You don't sound to bright. Or maybe just inexperienced with these issues.
Anonymous wrote:"You don't sound to bright"
It's TOO, nice try though.
Anonymous wrote:WOW! This forum is as extremist as a political forum! Some MBs think all nannies feel entitled and take advantage of their employers. Some nannies feel that MBs are abusing their children if they don't keep the nanny that doesn't fit well into the family. Neither of these views are accurate and I wouldn't want any part of these relationships!
OP, YOU were very unclear in your original post. You are also obviously angry and defensive. You are not displaying the ability to have an intellectual discussion regarding the matter. IF I was proactive in keeping the mess out of the car when it was in my use, I would be upset as well, but I wouldn't throw a fit. I would use the nap time one day to clean the car thoroughly. I would then be sure that the children and I kept it clean, including occasionally wiping it down. If the family trashed it on their time, I would not clean it out again. I would offer to take it and have it detailed and explain my reasoning in a kind and professional manner. It sounds as though they are giving you additional tasks that you are unhappy with and that you are looking to move forward. Hope things work out for you better in your next family.