OP sounds like a completely talentless nanny. Good lord. No coping strategies whatsoever.

Anonymous wrote:Nanny here. I would have never asked a child to help with cleaning the car. I throw away anything they use as we go (snacks, bottles etc).

Conversely, I don’t allow anything in the car until the children are old enough to responsible for cleaning up a after themselves (with or without help), and I don’t clean up for them.

Nanny here. I would have never asked a child to help with cleaning the car. I throw away anything they use as we go (snacks, bottles etc).

She's an effing spoiled brat.

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Anonymous wrote:The child is horrible and needs to be spanked.

Yeah no. The child needs an interested parent and a competent nanny.

There is no replacement for an involved parent.

Yes there is. A dedicated 24/7 nanny can do wonders when a parent is uninvolved or inadequately involved.

No more car cleaning. Or any cleaning. You have 3 kids to take care of. Cleaning is for the parents to do on the weekends.