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Anonymous wrote:How can the nanny get used to the camera and forget it's there if the parents make indiscreet comments about what they see? How can you forget when there is a camera everywhere you turn? This is not the typical nanny cam in the playroom scenario. No one is forgetting about these cameras.

Nanny here and work for a high profile couple who does have cameras everywhere but the bathrooms. I have completely forgotten about them and do, act and work as I would if the cameras were not present. I don't know how I do - I just do.

I have never made personal phone calls or watched TV when working so that has never been an issue whether there were cameras in the house or not. When my charges are napping, I do my usual child-related chores and then sit down, have lunch and read. When my employers make comments or ask about what book I am reading - I just tell them. Who cares? Strangers in the park can ask you what book you are reading and no offense is taken.

I am not a live-in nanny so I don't feel that I need very personal time in my work environment.

I don't think it's an apt comparison. If a stranger listened to you make a phone call and inserted themselves into the conversation you would probably be offended by the intrusion. Not because using a cell phone outside of your house is unreasonable, because intruding on a conversation that does not include you is rude and creepy. I also think a high profile family has greater cause for concern. Their status might attract people who are looking to profit by taking advantage of their generosity. I'm also curious how many hours you work. For someone who works above and beyond normal business hours it's will be impossible to call a doctors office or schedule any appointments outside of the work day.

the real issue here is that the NF is clearly using the cameras to amuse themselves at the nannys expense. How would it go over if the nanny commented on a prescription bottle she happened to see on the bathroom counter? Just because we work in close contact where personal information is readily available doesn't mean we get to be be tackles with our comments.

Exactly. Now let's see how she responds...

For the OP, there are two possibilities.

1. The family is truely weird and doesn't know boundaries.

2. Making comments is a way of sending an indirect message saying "We know you make personal calls. Act accordingly."

Sounds like the OP has a problem with spending too much time on the phone and making personal calls and watching TV. We have all been there with young kids who nap. It's impossible to get all the kids' laundry, clean up, meals prepped. Why is the nanny having any time at all watching TV during work hours? She is not a SAHM. She is a paid employee. No one gets paid to watch TV.

Sounds like you need to get back to work.

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Anonymous wrote:How can the nanny get used to the camera and forget it's there if the parents make indiscreet comments about what they see? How can you forget when there is a camera everywhere you turn? This is not the typical nanny cam in the playroom scenario. No one is forgetting about these cameras.

Nanny here and work for a high profile couple who does have cameras everywhere but the bathrooms. I have completely forgotten about them and do, act and work as I would if the cameras were not present. I don't know how I do - I just do.

I have never made personal phone calls or watched TV when working so that has never been an issue whether there were cameras in the house or not. When my charges are napping, I do my usual child-related chores and then sit down, have lunch and read. When my employers make comments or ask about what book I am reading - I just tell them. Who cares? Strangers in the park can ask you what book you are reading and no offense is taken.

I am not a live-in nanny so I don't feel that I need very personal time in my work environment.

I don't think it's an apt comparison. If a stranger listened to you make a phone call and inserted themselves into the conversation you would probably be offended by the intrusion. Not because using a cell phone outside of your house is unreasonable, because intruding on a conversation that does not include you is rude and creepy. I also think a high profile family has greater cause for concern. Their status might attract people who are looking to profit by taking advantage of their generosity. I'm also curious how many hours you work. For someone who works above and beyond normal business hours it's will be impossible to call a doctors office or schedule any appointments outside of the work day.

the real issue here is that the NF is clearly using the cameras to amuse themselves at the nannys expense. How would it go over if the nanny commented on a prescription bottle she happened to see on the bathroom counter? Just because we work in close contact where personal information is readily available doesn't mean we get to be be tackles with our comments.

Exactly. Now let's see how she responds...

For the OP, there are two possibilities.

1. The family is truely weird and doesn't know boundaries.

2. Making comments is a way of sending an indirect message saying "We know you make personal calls. Act accordingly."

Sounds like the OP has a problem with spending too much time on the phone and making personal calls and watching TV. We have all been there with young kids who nap. It's impossible to get all the kids' laundry, clean up, meals prepped. Why is the nanny having any time at all watching TV during work hours? She is not a SAHM. She is a paid employee. No one gets paid to watch TV.

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Anonymous wrote:How can the nanny get used to the camera and forget it's there if the parents make indiscreet comments about what they see? How can you forget when there is a camera everywhere you turn? This is not the typical nanny cam in the playroom scenario. No one is forgetting about these cameras.

Nanny here and work for a high profile couple who does have cameras everywhere but the bathrooms. I have completely forgotten about them and do, act and work as I would if the cameras were not present. I don't know how I do - I just do.

I have never made personal phone calls or watched TV when working so that has never been an issue whether there were cameras in the house or not. When my charges are napping, I do my usual child-related chores and then sit down, have lunch and read. When my employers make comments or ask about what book I am reading - I just tell them. Who cares? Strangers in the park can ask you what book you are reading and no offense is taken.

I am not a live-in nanny so I don't feel that I need very personal time in my work environment.

I don't think it's an apt comparison. If a stranger listened to you make a phone call and inserted themselves into the conversation you would probably be offended by the intrusion. Not because using a cell phone outside of your house is unreasonable, because intruding on a conversation that does not include you is rude and creepy. I also think a high profile family has greater cause for concern. Their status might attract people who are looking to profit by taking advantage of their generosity. I'm also curious how many hours you work. For someone who works above and beyond normal business hours it's will be impossible to call a doctors office or schedule any appointments outside of the work day.

the real issue here is that the NF is clearly using the cameras to amuse themselves at the nannys expense. How would it go over if the nanny commented on a prescription bottle she happened to see on the bathroom counter? Just because we work in close contact where personal information is readily available doesn't mean we get to be be tackles with our comments.

Exactly. Now let's see how she responds...

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Anonymous wrote:How can the nanny get used to the camera and forget it's there if the parents make indiscreet comments about what they see? How can you forget when there is a camera everywhere you turn? This is not the typical nanny cam in the playroom scenario. No one is forgetting about these cameras.

Nanny here and work for a high profile couple who does have cameras everywhere but the bathrooms. I have completely forgotten about them and do, act and work as I would if the cameras were not present. I don't know how I do - I just do.

I have never made personal phone calls or watched TV when working so that has never been an issue whether there were cameras in the house or not. When my charges are napping, I do my usual child-related chores and then sit down, have lunch and read. When my employers make comments or ask about what book I am reading - I just tell them. Who cares? Strangers in the park can ask you what book you are reading and no offense is taken.

I am not a live-in nanny so I don't feel that I need very personal time in my work environment.

I don't think it's an apt comparison. If a stranger listened to you make a phone call and inserted themselves into the conversation you would probably be offended by the intrusion. Not because using a cell phone outside of your house is unreasonable, because intruding on a conversation that does not include you is rude and creepy. I also think a high profile family has greater cause for concern. Their status might attract people who are looking to profit by taking advantage of their generosity. I'm also curious how many hours you work. For someone who works above and beyond normal business hours it's will be impossible to call a doctors office or schedule any appointments outside of the work day.

the real issue here is that the NF is clearly using the cameras to amuse themselves at the nannys expense. How would it go over if the nanny commented on a prescription bottle she happened to see on the bathroom counter? Just because we work in close contact where personal information is readily available doesn't mean we get to be be tackles with our comments.

Exactly. Now let's see how she responds...

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Anonymous wrote:They prob just check the cams 0-2 time a day.
I know I like to see if my kids made it to class on time after the teacher said she was often late. And that her nap started at a reasonable time. Obviously if I see the nanny forming bad habits, we talk about it.

Looks like you have left behind your child in the care of an irresponsible person.

Why are so many parents doing the very same thing?

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Anonymous wrote:How can the nanny get used to the camera and forget it's there if the parents make indiscreet comments about what they see? How can you forget when there is a camera everywhere you turn? This is not the typical nanny cam in the playroom scenario. No one is forgetting about these cameras.

Nanny here and work for a high profile couple who does have cameras everywhere but the bathrooms. I have completely forgotten about them and do, act and work as I would if the cameras were not present. I don't know how I do - I just do.

I have never made personal phone calls or watched TV when working so that has never been an issue whether there were cameras in the house or not. When my charges are napping, I do my usual child-related chores and then sit down, have lunch and read. When my employers make comments or ask about what book I am reading - I just tell them. Who cares? Strangers in the park can ask you what book you are reading and no offense is taken.

I am not a live-in nanny so I don't feel that I need very personal time in my work environment.

I don't think it's an apt comparison. If a stranger listened to you make a phone call and inserted themselves into the conversation you would probably be offended by the intrusion. Not because using a cell phone outside of your house is unreasonable, because intruding on a conversation that does not include you is rude and creepy. I also think a high profile family has greater cause for concern. Their status might attract people who are looking to profit by taking advantage of their generosity. I'm also curious how many hours you work. For someone who works above and beyond normal business hours it's will be impossible to call a doctors office or schedule any appointments outside of the work day.

the real issue here is that the NF is clearly using the cameras to amuse themselves at the nannys expense. How would it go over if the nanny commented on a prescription bottle she happened to see on the bathroom counter? Just because we work in close contact where personal information is readily available doesn't mean we get to be be tackles with our comments.

Anonymous wrote:They prob just check the cams 0-2 time a day.
I know I like to see if my kids made it to class on time after the teacher said she was often late. And that her nap started at a reasonable time. Obviously if I see the nanny forming bad habits, we talk about it.

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Anonymous wrote:How can the nanny get used to the camera and forget it's there if the parents make indiscreet comments about what they see? How can you forget when there is a camera everywhere you turn? This is not the typical nanny cam in the playroom scenario. No one is forgetting about these cameras.

Nanny here and work for a high profile couple who does have cameras everywhere but the bathrooms. I have completely forgotten about them and do, act and work as I would if the cameras were not present. I don't know how I do - I just do.

I have never made personal phone calls or watched TV when working so that has never been an issue whether there were cameras in the house or not. When my charges are napping, I do my usual child-related chores and then sit down, have lunch and read. When my employers make comments or ask about what book I am reading - I just tell them. Who cares? Strangers in the park can ask you what book you are reading and no offense is taken.

I am not a live-in nanny so I don't feel that I need very personal time in my work environment.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:They prob just check the cams 0-2 time a day.
I know I like to see if my kids made it to class on time after the teacher said she was often late. And that her nap started at a reasonable time. Obviously if I see the nanny forming bad habits, we talk about it.

Looks like you have left behind your child in the care of an irresponsible person.

Why are so many parents doing the very same thing?

Anonymous wrote:They prob just check the cams 0-2 time a day.
I know I like to see if my kids made it to class on time after the teacher said she was often late. And that her nap started at a reasonable time. Obviously if I see the nanny forming bad habits, we talk about it.

Anonymous wrote:How can the nanny get used to the camera and forget it's there if the parents make indiscreet comments about what they see? How can you forget when there is a camera everywhere you turn? This is not the typical nanny cam in the playroom scenario. No one is forgetting about these cameras.

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Anonymous wrote:Parents who leave their little child with an untrustworthy person are despicable. Is that fat paycheck really worth it?

Who is doing that?

Anonymous wrote:Curious: nannies, do you get used to the camera, or does it inhibit how freely you can play with your charges? Being a good nanny or parent is of course about being alert and keeping them safe, but you also have to be relaxed and goofy when you are with kids all day (I do anyway!).