Anonymous
04/05/2015 12:39
Subject: Re:Can someone explain the allure of working-from-home one day a week?
Mothers can win on this board. They get shredded for having the temerity to work outside the home. They get shredded for having the temerity to work inside the home.
OP, it's none of your business WHY she wants to work at home, nor is that a question strangers can answer.
If you want an actual answer - ask her.
If you want to address the problems her being home is causing, talk to her.
If you just want to complain and judge then you've found your home, and kindred spirits clearly.
+1.
It's very strange that OP is so obsessed with why her MB works at home. It doesn't matter why and it isn't any of OP's business. Point is she does work at home, one day, every other week. OP has already said that she is out of the house for five hours a day, so really, her problem is pretty minor. Three hours every other week to have an MB home is pretty easy.
That said, OP feels very put out. Fine. So she should talk to her MB about ways to make her days at home easier for OP (I don't believe for a second the charge is damaged by having the mother work home so infrequently).
If she doesn't want to do that, OP should quit.
It's a really easy problem to solve if OP focuses on the issue and not the ridiculous question of why.
Yes, the help should never question the motives of any boss. Ever. A nanny should know her place at all times including on a nanny message board.
Considering I said no such thing about nannies knowing their place, you should really work on that reading comprehension, PP.
(Oh, and work on trolling on threads where you actually understand the point being made.)
Anonymous
04/05/2015 08:17
Subject: Can someone explain the allure of working-from-home one day a week?
Anonymous wrote:I will explain. NO COMMUTE.
OP wrote that her MB works a half mile away from home so that is not true for her.
Given the closeness of her work and the restrictions she places on her child inside the home on the days that she works-from-home, I have no clue why your MB works from home eihter, OP.
Anonymous
04/05/2015 07:34
Subject: Can someone explain the allure of working-from-home one day a week?
I will explain. NO COMMUTE.
Anonymous
04/04/2015 16:17
Subject: Can someone explain the allure of working-from-home one day a week?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:This is the reality OP. Talk to your boss and try to find solutions, or decide this job isn't for you.
It is inappropriate for you to judge her choice to work from home.
What a load of crap. Of course the nanny should recognize a situation that's having a negative effect on her charge. That's one of the ways you know the difference between a nanny and a sitter.
OP, share your observations with the clueless parent, and see if she wants to start practicing some healthy boundaries. If not, you have two children to work with.
And nanny should earn double for having to nanny the mommy.
All dcum nannies should earn double, right now! Roar!
Wow, PP, you are so bitter.
I don't think you actually know what that word means.