Anonymous
03/12/2015 08:41
Subject: I am so fed up...
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I'm a nanny who does this and I don't see the problem. The babies are always cutest in the bath and such. Maybe you just need to get over yourself?
I'm a nanny and you are in the wrong. That child is NOT YOURS. You have no right to post pictures of your charge on social media. You are crossing a line and breaking the law. I hope you get slapped with a lawsuit and charges.
The fact that you see nothing wrong is worse. How old are you? You clearly aren't responsible enough to care for a child.
I'm 30, I've been with this family for over 3 years. The kids are 4 and 6. I'm basically part of the family. There is nothing wrong with it, it is innocent. None of my FB friends are looking at the pictures inappropriately and they get many likes.
Do you have the permission of their parents to post pictures?
If not you are completely in the wrong.
You should know permission or not it's not just you and your FB friends that can see those pictures.
Even if you have the parents' permission to take pictures, the children are incapable of giving consent. You are violating their rights by sharing naked images of them online.
Please respond to my earlier post inquiring how you rationalize each objection I raised.
Children have few, if any, rights that they get to exercise on their own. Most of a childs rights are decided by the parent (i.e. children don't have the right to refuse medical treatment, their parent makes those choices for them) and this is no different. It's not some horrible sexual exploitation to take a picture of a baby in their birthday suit. I guess technically the doctors were violating babies rights when they were in the delivery room when the baby was delivered.... naked! Gasp.
Rational people will realize no one cares. I've looked back at my own baby pictures and find the photos of me naked in funny situations adorable. I love the stories that go with those photos and the resulting memories and I will NOT allow you and your psychotic issues to ruin that for my own children. If my nanny were to also snap a cute bath time picture and share it with me I would not be offended. You are simply crazy and should seek help.
Perhaps you should come out of your bubble, and understand that not everyone is just like you. Nor is every family just like yours. Thank you.
Anonymous
03/12/2015 00:44
Subject: I am so fed up...
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I'm a nanny who does this and I don't see the problem. The babies are always cutest in the bath and such. Maybe you just need to get over yourself?
I'm a nanny and you are in the wrong. That child is NOT YOURS. You have no right to post pictures of your charge on social media. You are crossing a line and breaking the law. I hope you get slapped with a lawsuit and charges.
The fact that you see nothing wrong is worse. How old are you? You clearly aren't responsible enough to care for a child.
I'm 30, I've been with this family for over 3 years. The kids are 4 and 6. I'm basically part of the family. There is nothing wrong with it, it is innocent. None of my FB friends are looking at the pictures inappropriately and they get many likes.
Do you have the permission of their parents to post pictures?
If not you are completely in the wrong.
You should know permission or not it's not just you and your FB friends that can see those pictures.
Even if you have the parents' permission to take pictures, the children are incapable of giving consent. You are violating their rights by sharing naked images of them online.
Please respond to my earlier post inquiring how you rationalize each objection I raised.
Children have few, if any, rights that they get to exercise on their own. Most of a childs rights are decided by the parent (i.e. children don't have the right to refuse medical treatment, their parent makes those choices for them) and this is no different. It's not some horrible sexual exploitation to take a picture of a baby in their birthday suit. I guess technically the doctors were violating babies rights when they were in the delivery room when the baby was delivered.... naked! Gasp.
Rational people will realize no one cares. I've looked back at my own baby pictures and find the photos of me naked in funny situations adorable. I love the stories that go with those photos and the resulting memories and I will NOT allow you and your psychotic issues to ruin that for my own children. If my nanny were to also snap a cute bath time picture and share it with me I would not be offended. You are simply crazy and should seek help.
Anonymous
03/11/2015 23:51
Subject: I am so fed up...
Not a nanny, and while I wouldn't post my kids pictures on Facebook I;m not going to not take pictures of them in their diapers or a bath time they are great memories for their baby books. I have sent their grandmothers bath time videos because they can be quite cute and funny during that time. I disagree with you that their rights are being violated. If my children feel that way when they are older they are free to curse me when talking to their therapist and press charges against me.
Anonymous
03/11/2015 23:23
Subject: I am so fed up...
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I'm a nanny who does this and I don't see the problem. The babies are always cutest in the bath and such. Maybe you just need to get over yourself?
I'm a nanny and you are in the wrong. That child is NOT YOURS. You have no right to post pictures of your charge on social media. You are crossing a line and breaking the law. I hope you get slapped with a lawsuit and charges.
The fact that you see nothing wrong is worse. How old are you? You clearly aren't responsible enough to care for a child.
I'm 30, I've been with this family for over 3 years. The kids are 4 and 6. I'm basically part of the family. There is nothing wrong with it, it is innocent. None of my FB friends are looking at the pictures inappropriately and they get many likes.
Do you have the permission of their parents to post pictures?
If not you are completely in the wrong.
You should know permission or not it's not just you and your FB friends that can see those pictures.
Even if you have the parents' permission to take pictures, the children are incapable of giving consent. You are violating their rights by sharing naked images of them online.
Please respond to my earlier post inquiring how you rationalize each objection I raised.
Anonymous
03/11/2015 21:00
Subject: I am so fed up...
This is why I left INA, nanny care tribe, and nanny biz reviews, how can any professional organization that claim to raise the standards be OK with posting charges on social media permision or not. Shame on the APNA if they condone this with agencies in their organization. Any big name nannies that do post pictures have one big ugly name, shame on you for taking the standards down.
Anonymous
03/11/2015 20:50
Subject: I am so fed up...
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:They did accept parents and agencies as well.
Well, that's certainly shocking. Are they INA or APNA agencies?
Don't know I left the group but when there were big name members. Memberships like one of if not the biggest household employee tax advisor group. And there were nannies that claimed to be INA members.
Anonymous
03/11/2015 20:47
Subject: I am so fed up...
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I'm a nanny who does this and I don't see the problem. The babies are always cutest in the bath and such. Maybe you just need to get over yourself?
I'm a nanny and you are in the wrong. That child is NOT YOURS. You have no right to post pictures of your charge on social media. You are crossing a line and breaking the law. I hope you get slapped with a lawsuit and charges.
The fact that you see nothing wrong is worse. How old are you? You clearly aren't responsible enough to care for a child.
I'm 30, I've been with this family for over 3 years. The kids are 4 and 6. I'm basically part of the family. There is nothing wrong with it, it is innocent. None of my FB friends are looking at the pictures inappropriately and they get many likes.
Do you have the permission of their parents to post pictures?
If not you are completely in the wrong.
You should know permission or not it's not just you and your FB friends that can see those pictures.
Anonymous
03/11/2015 20:40
Subject: I am so fed up...
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I'm a nanny who does this and I don't see the problem. The babies are always cutest in the bath and such. Maybe you just need to get over yourself?
I'm a nanny and you are in the wrong. That child is NOT YOURS. You have no right to post pictures of your charge on social media. You are crossing a line and breaking the law. I hope you get slapped with a lawsuit and charges.
The fact that you see nothing wrong is worse. How old are you? You clearly aren't responsible enough to care for a child.
I'm 30, I've been with this family for over 3 years. The kids are 4 and 6. I'm basically part of the family. There is nothing wrong with it, it is innocent. None of my FB friends are looking at the pictures inappropriately and they get many likes.
Anonymous
03/11/2015 20:15
Subject: I am so fed up...
Anonymous wrote:They did accept parents and agencies as well.
Well, that's certainly shocking. Are they INA or APNA agencies?
Anonymous
03/11/2015 20:13
Subject: I am so fed up...
They did accept parents and agencies as well.
Anonymous
03/11/2015 18:44
Subject: I am so fed up...
Anonymous wrote:Well I am going to say it Nanny Care Tribe Facebook group is one of the biggest violators for posting their charges pictures online. Some of the most proclaimed professionals say they have permission to post and think the group is secure. The Mod for these groups not only condone this behavior they brag about it. This is why I have left several groups, because I never think it is OK to post pictures of children that are not theirs, just wrong.
Good that the group is named. Thank you.
If you want to join, how can they keep out a mb pretending to be a nanny?
Anonymous
03/11/2015 16:59
Subject: I am so fed up...
Unfortunately there is little you can do. FB is slow to follow up reports.
If you report you get kicked out of the group and mods are quick to clean up posts so by the time FB gets around to it the evidence is gone.
Membership to the group is private so parents may have a hard time getting in.
It's a no win situation and the kids suffer.
If you report you get kicked out of the group and mods are quick to clean up posts so by the time FB gets around to it the evidence is gone.
Membership to the group is private so parents may have a hard time getting in.
It's a no win situation and the kids suffer.
Anonymous
03/11/2015 16:43
Subject: I am so fed up...
Well I am going to say it Nanny Care Tribe Facebook group is one of the biggest violators for posting their charges pictures online. Some of the most proclaimed professionals say they have permission to post and think the group is secure. The Mod for these groups not only condone this behavior they brag about it. This is why I have left several groups, because I never think it is OK to post pictures of children that are not theirs, just wrong.
Anonymous
03/11/2015 16:43
Subject: I am so fed up...
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I honestly think you should mention the names of the group, OP.
If more people report it Facebook will have to take action against the pictures.
I agree. Mention their names here, and that'll be the end of the problem. I bet you anything, they're afraid of OP now.
I would like to know if OP followed through with reporting.
Most nanny groups on Facebook are private so it is up to the members to report inappropriate behavior.
I think OP said she knew the nanny's employers at the very least she should inform them of what is going on.
OP here. Followed through on reporting what? I always report photos to FB. If I know the parents (i do not in this particular case) I always alert them as well. Some time ago, when I reported photos posted in the two nanny groups, there was an outcry. I identified myself as the culprit and explained why I thought the picture was inappropriate and 30 seconds later I'd been removed from the group (it happened on two separate occasions). I'm no longer privy to their pictures but I hope someone else has taken up the mantle and is sending any naked child photos to FB for review.
No, I did not go to the police.
Sorry I misunderstood your previous posts. I hope someone else is reporting. Although you still might be able to report to Facebook if you tell them what you know .
Anonymous
03/11/2015 16:21
Subject: I am so fed up...
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I honestly think you should mention the names of the group, OP.
If more people report it Facebook will have to take action against the pictures.
I agree. Mention their names here, and that'll be the end of the problem. I bet you anything, they're afraid of OP now.
I would like to know if OP followed through with reporting.
Most nanny groups on Facebook are private so it is up to the members to report inappropriate behavior.
I think OP said she knew the nanny's employers at the very least she should inform them of what is going on.
OP here. Followed through on reporting what? I always report photos to FB. If I know the parents (i do not in this particular case) I always alert them as well. Some time ago, when I reported photos posted in the two nanny groups, there was an outcry. I identified myself as the culprit and explained why I thought the picture was inappropriate and 30 seconds later I'd been removed from the group (it happened on two separate occasions). I'm no longer privy to their pictures but I hope someone else has taken up the mantle and is sending any naked child photos to FB for review.
No, I did not go to the police.