You people are crazy and apparently feel your husbands have no self control. Wow. This is the last thing I’m concerned about when hiring a nanny, or any household employee.

I can tell none of you women subscribe to Lifetime, the nanny always makes a pass at the husband and he for sure always fall for it. A standing "eggplant" has no mercy so be careful who you let into your house.

Anonymous wrote:It's funny, because we are currently looking for a new nanny for when we move, and for some reason I am more interested in the attractive candidates! (I'm a straight woman). Our current nanny is pretty but kind of heavy and not at all my husband's type. Some of our current candidates are his type (i.e. they're basically younger, sometimes prettier versions of myself). While I'm not one to test fate and I can get jealous, I guess I'm assuming that whoever we choose will be mature enough to not make a pass at my husband. Plus I don't think my husband is dumb enough to think about cheating, especially with the nanny. So we might very well end up with a very attractive nanny and I don't think it will be an issue. Plus, we're moving to the beach, so I figure our future neighbors can thank me.

Ha! You'd be surprised ma'am. BE careful!!!!

Agreed with the above comment in regards to not inviting trouble into the marriage. My husband wouldn't want me hiring a sexy male model looking Manny. So why would I do that to him. All it takes is a marital issue, a few bad days, and the devil slides in. It has nothing to do with being insecure. It's about avoiding potential threats in your marriage & not parading around temptations or being careless. Being blind in today's times & having bullet proof self esteem isn't the best course of action when it comes to the world. I used to be young, less trauma & scars and was youthful & considered "hot", others words not mine lol. I've been around long enough to know how the world works. 38 now. But, ignorance is bliss & sometimes experiencing a life without trouble makes you ignorant. I am not any longer, no matter how great a husband or wife, we're all human & are capable of making mistakes. Why leave things so open to do so?
No one should be judging anyone for wanting to protect their marriage. I'm very protective of mine. Both my husband and I are considered attractive by others, but we don't leave doors, not even windows cracked open for ppl's lack of boundaries & respect.

Yes to seeing bosses disgusting habits. DB was workin from home the other day and his office reeked of farts. Same as when you see their dirty underwear lying around. No crushing on the DB here, no way.

I find this topic very interested. I am in my sixties and still turning men's heads but never in my wildest dreams would I lower my standards by having a fling with my boss....and I've worked with some very handsome men.

However, one neighbor got me fired from a job which I loved because her husband may had stated how fine I was. Next thing I know I was on the bread line seeking employment.....this was over twenty something years ago. He too was a handsome man which I wouldn't touch either.....I was raised with morals.

Nonetheless, sleeping with your boss makes you seems cheap, no matter how beautiful or ugly you are. And you are disrespecting your female boss.

And in addition, if any man boss of mine had ever brought anything as ugly as that to me I would have hit him in the face and left the job.

I spent vacations on the beach just my male boss, the children and myself and my boss was as decent as could be. Maybe I wasn't his type, or there were something about me that says she doesn't play around....

Men knows who to bring certain subjects to, I maintain a professional face on the job at all time, and I dress for the job therefore no boss can get me confused with any other profession than what he hires me for.