Anonymous
10/20/2017 17:21
Subject: Paying in cash - recent immigrant
Wow.
Another name-caller.
President Trump has taught you well I see.
Whatever your thoughts on what OP does, whether you think he is committing a felony or a misdemeanor, why resort to childish tactics like calling “IDIOT?”
You can get your point across sans the personal insults.
You are an adult, correct????
Another name-caller.
President Trump has taught you well I see.
Whatever your thoughts on what OP does, whether you think he is committing a felony or a misdemeanor, why resort to childish tactics like calling “IDIOT?”
You can get your point across sans the personal insults.
You are an adult, correct????
Anonymous
10/20/2017 04:56
Subject: Paying in cash - recent immigrant
Anonymous wrote:Aren’t you mostly parents on here??
Don’t you teach your children not to name-call people who do not share their perspectives/views??
I am not saying OP is in the right here.
What I AM saying is that if you disagree so much with what he is doing then there are many other ways to let him know w/out resorting to name-calling.
Name-calling online is so juvenile.
Doing something illegal and immoral is not a "disagreement of opinions", Dear. You are asking to break the law and short-change a hard working woman who will be the lifeline to your baby and you are worried about strangers calling you names!!!
I have to say, I do think you are a bit of an idiot myself.
Anonymous
10/20/2017 02:21
Subject: Paying in cash - recent immigrant
Aren’t you mostly parents on here??
Don’t you teach your children not to name-call people who do not share their perspectives/views??
I am not saying OP is in the right here.
What I AM saying is that if you disagree so much with what he is doing then there are many other ways to let him know w/out resorting to name-calling.
Name-calling online is so juvenile.
Don’t you teach your children not to name-call people who do not share their perspectives/views??
I am not saying OP is in the right here.
What I AM saying is that if you disagree so much with what he is doing then there are many other ways to let him know w/out resorting to name-calling.
Name-calling online is so juvenile.
Anonymous
10/19/2017 16:05
Subject: Re:Paying in cash - recent immigrant
Anonymous wrote:How much do you want to bet that the employers of undocumented nannies are trump supporters?
Now watch how they all deny it.
+ 1
Anonymous
10/19/2017 16:04
Subject: Paying in cash - recent immigrant
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:^^^
Geez.
You guys all act like the OP is a murderer or worse...Harvey Weinstein.
Yes he knows it is illegal.
We ALL know it.
But instead of name-calling, just freakin don’t respond if you have nothing positive to add.
This applies to all posts on here.
People are so mean!
Stop! Are you seriously saying that we should be nice to a criminal who is stealing from us?!! Hiring undocumented workers is a crime and then taking advantage of the worker is a sin. Sorry if you feel that pointing this out is "mean", Idiot. [/
quote]
Exactly my point.
Once you start with the name-calling, your response is not going to be taken seriously.
While it is totally okay to disagree, it is never acceptable to call someone a name just because your opinion does not align with theirs.
NP here and I have to agree that you are an idiot. I mean that as a description and not a judgement.
Anonymous
10/19/2017 06:24
Subject: Paying in cash - recent immigrant
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:^^^
Geez.
You guys all act like the OP is a murderer or worse...Harvey Weinstein.
Yes he knows it is illegal.
We ALL know it.
But instead of name-calling, just freakin don’t respond if you have nothing positive to add.
This applies to all posts on here.
People are so mean!
Stop! Are you seriously saying that we should be nice to a criminal who is stealing from us?!! Hiring undocumented workers is a crime and then taking advantage of the worker is a sin. Sorry if you feel that pointing this out is "mean", Idiot. [/
quote]
Exactly my point.
Once you start with the name-calling, your response is not going to be taken seriously.
While it is totally okay to disagree, it is never acceptable to call someone a name just because your opinion does not align with theirs.
Anonymous
10/18/2017 09:17
Subject: Re:Paying in cash - recent immigrant
How much do you want to bet that the employers of undocumented nannies are trump supporters?
Now watch how they all deny it.
Now watch how they all deny it.
Anonymous
10/18/2017 09:16
Subject: Paying in cash - recent immigrant
Anonymous wrote:^^^
Geez.
You guys all act like the OP is a murderer or worse...Harvey Weinstein.
Yes he knows it is illegal.
We ALL know it.
But instead of name-calling, just freakin don’t respond if you have nothing positive to add.
This applies to all posts on here.
People are so mean!
Stop! Are you seriously saying that we should be nice to a criminal who is stealing from us?!! Hiring undocumented workers is a crime and then taking advantage of the worker is a sin. Sorry if you feel that pointing this out is "mean", Idiot.
Anonymous
10/18/2017 08:15
Subject: Paying in cash - recent immigrant
Anonymous wrote:Good lord, you people. How dare you assume that because someone is poor and undocumented they are not a good caregiver. My husband and I have done a lot of work with undereducated and impoverished people living in Central America. There are things that a woman from this group may have to offer my son that are valuable to him and to us and that we CANNOT give him ourselves. We don't need a nanny with a university degree and umc American culture because we already have that to share. People judging me need to take a look in the mirror themselves.
But, because we have worked and lived with the target population, we also understand that it is important not to overpay. That is why I am asking the question.
If anyone else wants to weigh in and has a real answer, I'd be grateful. I'm sure you're out there.
In a word, BULL$&IT!
Anonymous
10/18/2017 06:41
Subject: Paying in cash - recent immigrant
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Original poster you sound like you are asking if it's alright to
take advantage of the nanny.
No, I'm asking what is the going rate for a nanny with perhaps primary school experience who does not speak English.
Does your work have a "going rate"? No.
Pay her what her work is worth to you.
Anonymous
10/18/2017 04:39
Subject: Paying in cash - recent immigrant
^^^
Geez.
You guys all act like the OP is a murderer or worse...Harvey Weinstein.
Yes he knows it is illegal.
We ALL know it.
But instead of name-calling, just freakin don’t respond if you have nothing positive to add.
This applies to all posts on here.
People are so mean!
Geez.
You guys all act like the OP is a murderer or worse...Harvey Weinstein.
Yes he knows it is illegal.
We ALL know it.
But instead of name-calling, just freakin don’t respond if you have nothing positive to add.
This applies to all posts on here.
People are so mean!
Anonymous
10/17/2017 22:59
Subject: Re:Paying in cash - recent immigrant
I pray someone turns you in, OP. You are scum.
Anonymous
10/17/2017 22:58
Subject: Re:Paying in cash - recent immigrant
Anonymous wrote:$10 to $15 an hour cash.
OMG. Horrible.
You women think so little of your own children. So sad.
Anonymous
10/17/2017 22:20
Subject: Re:Paying in cash - recent immigrant
$10 to $15 an hour cash.
Anonymous
10/17/2017 13:58
Subject: Paying in cash - recent immigrant
I agree that you are breaking the law OP. You automatically cede the moral high ground.
I have employed 3 nannies, in Montgomery County, over the past 7 years. All of them full-time, all legal citizens, one of whom was an immigrant for whom english was a second language. All three have been paid in the $16-19/hr range (with overtime paid as appropriate for hours exceeding 40 per week.)
I assume you can pay significantly less when paying cash under the table. But you aren't going to get lots of information here because it's illegal.
I don't buy your argument about appropriate compensation. If you were living in a third world country then it is a valid concern to not pay exponentially above market rates. In the US, to use your argument to support paying illegally is not defensible.
You're breaking the law and attempting to way underpay legal and market rates. You don't win on any front in this argument.
I have employed 3 nannies, in Montgomery County, over the past 7 years. All of them full-time, all legal citizens, one of whom was an immigrant for whom english was a second language. All three have been paid in the $16-19/hr range (with overtime paid as appropriate for hours exceeding 40 per week.)
I assume you can pay significantly less when paying cash under the table. But you aren't going to get lots of information here because it's illegal.
I don't buy your argument about appropriate compensation. If you were living in a third world country then it is a valid concern to not pay exponentially above market rates. In the US, to use your argument to support paying illegally is not defensible.
You're breaking the law and attempting to way underpay legal and market rates. You don't win on any front in this argument.