Anonymous wrote:I'd check one more day and then have a talk and it's her. Napping when the kids are awake especially when there's one crying is not ok ever. Napping when they nap, sure.
Keep sporadically checking.
Also leave a handout each month on Reminders (Limit phone time, Nap when children are napping, etc.), Things Children are Working on (naming the colors, ABCs, etc. and the schedule (Tues Gymboree, library classes, etc. ).
Put things like "don't leave child in bouncy seat unattended or for more than 20 minutes a time" on it. Also verbally remind her.