Anonymous wrote:Just quit.

If my nanny was this demanding and insisted on an apology I might apologize to her but ultimately I would fire her.

I'm not going to pay for drama and finding a new nanny isn't that hard.

NP here and I have no clue where you people who say this must live or what you think of as a "nanny". I have found it extremely difficult to find an educated and experienced nanny! I am offered between $20 and $25 an hour and still have found nothing but flakes.

My sister has the world's greatest nanny and she agrees that finding a nanny who simply isn't on her phone all the time is a challenge.


My advice to OP - just let it go, OP. Your MB is probably embarrassed and it does no good to embarrass your boss any further. I know - I have an asshole boss.

Yes to PP. OP, you have to. At least make up a similar story so we know WTAF you are talking about.

But if you feel like you neeeeeed to demand an apology, you can ask her for ten minutes to chat. Tell her that you felt undermined or disrespected or whatever (details would really help here) and would like to find a way to strengthen your relationship with her as you know you both care deeply about the children.

If that doesn't sound palatable, you should probably just quit.