Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Our nanny rarely takes a break. My DS is a young infant and naps 3-4 hours a day. During that time she does his laundry, prepares homemade purees, sterilizes everything, and cleans his nursery. We tell her to take breaks but she rarely does. She's always on her feet. She is incredibly energetic and attentive with DS. We show our appreciation regularly with small gifts here and there and always a " thank you".
What does she do when he's awake (and not getting fed or diapered)?
They do a variety of things. She takes him on walks, reads books, takes him to a few infant classes, the park, and works on a lot of developmental milestones like tummy time, rolling over, sitting, baby sign language, etc. She is 100% engaged with him at his awake times.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Our nanny rarely takes a break. My DS is a young infant and naps 3-4 hours a day. During that time she does his laundry, prepares homemade purees, sterilizes everything, and cleans his nursery. We tell her to take breaks but she rarely does. She's always on her feet. She is incredibly energetic and attentive with DS. We show our appreciation regularly with small gifts here and there and always a " thank you".
What does she do when he's awake (and not getting fed or diapered)?
They do a variety of things. She takes him on walks, reads books, takes him to a few infant classes, the park, and works on a lot of developmental milestones like tummy time, rolling over, sitting, baby sign language, etc. She is 100% engaged with him at his awake times.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Our nanny rarely takes a break. My DS is a young infant and naps 3-4 hours a day. During that time she does his laundry, prepares homemade purees, sterilizes everything, and cleans his nursery. We tell her to take breaks but she rarely does. She's always on her feet. She is incredibly energetic and attentive with DS. We show our appreciation regularly with small gifts here and there and always a " thank you".
What does she do when he's awake (and not getting fed or diapered)?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I let our nanny rest for 1/2 the average time that DS is asleep. She must remain awake but she is welcome to read or watch TV. The other half of the time I require her to do some chores. I verify with the nanny cam every now and then, but our nanny is very trustworthy.
What kind of chores?
The typical stuff. Vacuum the living room, wipe down the bathroom, put the dishes away and load the dishwasher with new ones, etc. Just really basic stuff.
That's a housekeeper, not a nanny. Nannies do NOT vacuum your living room.
I vacuum the living room because I do not want babies crawling around on dirt and dog hair. I'm a nanny.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I let our nanny rest for 1/2 the average time that DS is asleep. She must remain awake but she is welcome to read or watch TV. The other half of the time I require her to do some chores. I verify with the nanny cam every now and then, but our nanny is very trustworthy.
What kind of chores?
The typical stuff. Vacuum the living room, wipe down the bathroom, put the dishes away and load the dishwasher with new ones, etc. Just really basic stuff.
That's a housekeeper, not a nanny. Nannies do NOT vacuum your living room.
DC is 1.5 and takes a two hour nap (usually) in the afternoons. Our nanny does his laundry, makes a few things for him from scratch, straights up the play area, bathroom and his room but then must have about an hour or more free. Her hours are between eight and ten hours a day.
What length of break is appropriate?
TIA
So you're worried that out of a 10 hour day she gets an hour break to eat her lunch and relax on average? You're an asshole.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:DC is 1.5 and takes a two hour nap (usually) in the afternoons. Our nanny does his laundry, makes a few things for him from scratch, straights up the play area, bathroom and his room but then must have about an hour or more free. Her hours are between eight and ten hours a day.
What length of break is appropriate?
TIA
So you're worried that out of a 10 hour day she gets an hour break to eat her lunch and relax on average? You're an asshole.
Anonymous wrote:OP here. I just wanted to know how other employers felt about their nanny's break. No agenda. Thank you for the responses.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I let our nanny rest for 1/2 the average time that DS is asleep. She must remain awake but she is welcome to read or watch TV. The other half of the time I require her to do some chores. I verify with the nanny cam every now and then, but our nanny is very trustworthy.
What kind of chores?
The typical stuff. Vacuum the living room, wipe down the bathroom, put the dishes away and load the dishwasher with new ones, etc. Just really basic stuff.
That's a housekeeper, not a nanny. Nannies do NOT vacuum your living room.
Well then by your logic when DC is asleep nanny is not a nanny, just a babysitter since she isn't teaching or nurturing him. So I guess I could either pay her a reduced rate when DC is asleep or let her rest a bit and do some chores for her full salary. She seems to be happy with doing the chores.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I let our nanny rest for 1/2 the average time that DS is asleep. She must remain awake but she is welcome to read or watch TV. The other half of the time I require her to do some chores. I verify with the nanny cam every now and then, but our nanny is very trustworthy.
What kind of chores?
The typical stuff. Vacuum the living room, wipe down the bathroom, put the dishes away and load the dishwasher with new ones, etc. Just really basic stuff.
That's a housekeeper, not a nanny. Nannies do NOT vacuum your living room.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I let our nanny rest for 1/2 the average time that DS is asleep. She must remain awake but she is welcome to read or watch TV. The other half of the time I require her to do some chores. I verify with the nanny cam every now and then, but our nanny is very trustworthy.
What kind of chores?
The typical stuff. Vacuum the living room, wipe down the bathroom, put the dishes away and load the dishwasher with new ones, etc. Just really basic stuff.
That's a housekeeper, not a nanny. Nannies do NOT vacuum your living room.
+1 I would never ask nor expect my nanny to vacuum.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:What's your worry, OP?
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