Anonymous
03/11/2015 16:16
Subject: I am so fed up...
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I'm a nanny who does this and I don't see the problem. The babies are always cutest in the bath and such. Maybe you just need to get over yourself?
I'm a nanny and you are in the wrong. That child is NOT YOURS. You have no right to post pictures of your charge on social media. You are crossing a line and breaking the law. I hope you get slapped with a lawsuit and charges.
The fact that you see nothing wrong is worse. How old are you? You clearly aren't responsible enough to care for a child.
These nannies who do this envision themselves to be family members some even call themselves the "third or extra parent" they believe this so in their viewpoint they are doing nothing wrong it isnt any different from an aunt , grandma, or daddy posting a picture.
You know why, don't you?
No I do not know why. I have been a full-time nanny for many years loved all the kiddos I have cared for, and I'm close to the families never have I thought of myself as a parent or thought it would be ok to post pictures of the kids.
Now I don't think all of these nannies mean harm I think some of them just lose sight of things they get caught up in wanting to show off want they do during the day and before you know things get posted that shouldn't be.
If you think of the word "parenting," that might help.
How would you define that word?
Doesn't matter how many diapers I change or how many hours I work I'm not the parent. I have no right to post pictures of the kids anywhere I want to. I'm fairly certain if these nannies were taken to court as some of the MBs implied they would do no judge would say well she works a 10 hour shift, gives them lunch and baths, and changes diapers that gives her the same legal rights as parents and she can post their info all over the internet.
Anonymous
03/11/2015 16:03
Subject: I am so fed up...
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I'm a nanny who does this and I don't see the problem. The babies are always cutest in the bath and such. Maybe you just need to get over yourself?
I'm a nanny and you are in the wrong. That child is NOT YOURS. You have no right to post pictures of your charge on social media. You are crossing a line and breaking the law. I hope you get slapped with a lawsuit and charges.
The fact that you see nothing wrong is worse. How old are you? You clearly aren't responsible enough to care for a child.
These nannies who do this envision themselves to be family members some even call themselves the "third or extra parent" they believe this so in their viewpoint they are doing nothing wrong it isnt any different from an aunt , grandma, or daddy posting a picture.
You know why, don't you?
No I do not know why. I have been a full-time nanny for many years loved all the kiddos I have cared for, and I'm close to the families never have I thought of myself as a parent or thought it would be ok to post pictures of the kids.
Now I don't think all of these nannies mean harm I think some of them just lose sight of things they get caught up in wanting to show off want they do during the day and before you know things get posted that shouldn't be.
If you think of the word "parenting," that might help.
How would you define that word?
Anonymous
03/11/2015 15:56
Subject: I am so fed up...
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I honestly think you should mention the names of the group, OP.
If more people report it Facebook will have to take action against the pictures.
I agree. Mention their names here, and that'll be the end of the problem. I bet you anything, they're afraid of OP now.
I would like to know if OP followed through with reporting.
Most nanny groups on Facebook are private so it is up to the members to report inappropriate behavior.
I think OP said she knew the nanny's employers at the very least she should inform them of what is going on.
Anonymous
03/11/2015 15:54
Subject: I am so fed up...
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I'm a nanny who does this and I don't see the problem. The babies are always cutest in the bath and such. Maybe you just need to get over yourself?
I'm a nanny and you are in the wrong. That child is NOT YOURS. You have no right to post pictures of your charge on social media. You are crossing a line and breaking the law. I hope you get slapped with a lawsuit and charges.
The fact that you see nothing wrong is worse. How old are you? You clearly aren't responsible enough to care for a child.
These nannies who do this envision themselves to be family members some even call themselves the "third or extra parent" they believe this so in their viewpoint they are doing nothing wrong it isnt any different from an aunt , grandma, or daddy posting a picture.
You know why, don't you?
No I do not know why. I have been a full-time nanny for many years loved all the kiddos I have cared for, and I'm close to the families never have I thought of myself as a parent or thought it would be ok to post pictures of the kids.
Now I don't think all of these nannies mean harm I think some of them just lose sight of things they get caught up in wanting to show off want they do during the day and before you know things get posted that shouldn't be.
Anonymous
03/11/2015 14:13
Subject: I am so fed up...
Anonymous wrote:I honestly think you should mention the names of the group, OP.
If more people report it Facebook will have to take action against the pictures.
I agree. Mention their names here, and that'll be the end of the problem. I bet you anything, they're afraid of OP now.
Anonymous
03/11/2015 14:11
Subject: I am so fed up...
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I'm a nanny who does this and I don't see the problem. The babies are always cutest in the bath and such. Maybe you just need to get over yourself?
I'm a nanny and you are in the wrong. That child is NOT YOURS. You have no right to post pictures of your charge on social media. You are crossing a line and breaking the law. I hope you get slapped with a lawsuit and charges.
The fact that you see nothing wrong is worse. How old are you? You clearly aren't responsible enough to care for a child.
These nannies who do this envision themselves to be family members some even call themselves the "third or extra parent" they believe this so in their viewpoint they are doing nothing wrong it isnt any different from an aunt , grandma, or daddy posting a picture.
You know why, don't you?
Anonymous
03/11/2015 13:37
Subject: I am so fed up...
I honestly think you should mention the names of the group, OP.
If more people report it Facebook will have to take action against the pictures.
If more people report it Facebook will have to take action against the pictures.
Anonymous
03/11/2015 13:36
Subject: I am so fed up...
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I'm a nanny who does this and I don't see the problem. The babies are always cutest in the bath and such. Maybe you just need to get over yourself?
I'm a nanny and you are in the wrong. That child is NOT YOURS. You have no right to post pictures of your charge on social media. You are crossing a line and breaking the law. I hope you get slapped with a lawsuit and charges.
The fact that you see nothing wrong is worse. How old are you? You clearly aren't responsible enough to care for a child.
These nannies who do this envision themselves to be family members some even call themselves the "third or extra parent" they believe this so in their viewpoint they are doing nothing wrong it isnt any different from an aunt , grandma, or daddy posting a picture.
Anonymous
03/11/2015 13:33
Subject: I am so fed up...
Anonymous wrote:Best to hire a responsible professional nanny, don't you think?
You'd be surprised what the professional ones post. Pictures of their employers houses, talk about employers job , the celebrity/ athlete they work for, the famous friend's house they went to for a playdate. Many of these nannies have ( or claim to have) years of experience in the field are members of reputable agencies. You would be surprised.
Many of them are the ones to constantly cry troll to turn the discussion away from the original intent.
Anonymous
03/11/2015 13:28
Subject: I am so fed up...
She really doesn't need to troll because as the point OP was trying to make there are plenty of nannies of all ages and professional associations that see nothing wrong with posting their charges all over social media.
Anonymous
03/11/2015 12:55
Subject: I am so fed up...
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I'm a nanny who does this and I don't see the problem. The babies are always cutest in the bath and such. Maybe you just need to get over yourself?
I'm a nanny and you are in the wrong. That child is NOT YOURS. You have no right to post pictures of your charge on social media. You are crossing a line and breaking the law. I hope you get slapped with a lawsuit and charges.
The fact that you see nothing wrong is worse. How old are you? You clearly aren't responsible enough to care for a child.
She's the dumb troll poster.
Anonymous
03/11/2015 12:53
Subject: I am so fed up...
Anonymous wrote:I'm a nanny who does this and I don't see the problem. The babies are always cutest in the bath and such. Maybe you just need to get over yourself?
I'm a nanny and you are in the wrong. That child is NOT YOURS. You have no right to post pictures of your charge on social media. You are crossing a line and breaking the law. I hope you get slapped with a lawsuit and charges.
The fact that you see nothing wrong is worse. How old are you? You clearly aren't responsible enough to care for a child.
Anonymous
03/11/2015 12:04
Subject: I am so fed up...
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:What? What "nanny groups"? I've never seen or heard of this outrageous behavior. Please report which groups you're talking about.
I don't want to out myself by name, and I think saying which groups removed me (after I explained to them why I reported specific photos) might do that inadvertently - I'm pretty sure the mods read here. I will say it was two of the largest nanny groups on FB, though.
Well, INA to the rescue, PLEASE. Please demand that your members refrain from online nude postings of their charges. In fact, nannies should have written consent of the parents before posting ANY online photographs of their charges.
Where are all those lawyers and agency owners on the INA board?
I can't believe they haven't already addressed this issue with their members.
Anonymous
03/11/2015 12:04
Subject: I am so fed up...
Best to hire a responsible professional nanny, don't you think?
Anonymous
03/11/2015 12:01
Subject: Re:I am so fed up...
Mb here. If my nanny posted pics of my kid online, she be fired and hearing from our attorney.