Anonymous wrote:I have to agree with most of the comments on here. I don't babysit but if my ft nanny family changes my hours for whatever reason, it's in my contract that I'm paid for my full hours. (Even if they decide I'm not needed ie family in town, etc). I keep my self available from x hr to z hr and will be paid for that. This was a last minute change and you didn't speak to her directly. What if it was the other way around. If she called you left a voicemail that she would be an hour and a half late, but neither you nor your dh got that voicemail. You both would be waiting at 9am pissed she was running late. She comes strolling up at 1030 shocked at why you're mad, she DID leave you a voicemail. Doubt you would use her again as a babysitter. Live and learn OP. Respect your next caregiver (and her time) and she will respect you.
This really nails it. This sitter didn't have guaranteed hours, but the OP changed the schedule at the last minute, did not receive any confirmation from the sitter that she even got the message, and then made her leave and come back 90 minutes later, all to avoid paying her a few bucks. If the sitter really is that good, she's got plenty of other offers, and I don't blame her for not wanting to sit for people who don't respect her time. Honestly, you couldn't have invited her in for a cup of coffee?