Anonymous wrote:Op here, final update:
So I just heard back from Mom A, and she has decided 250$ a week for a nanny is more than they are willing to pay. They want to stay at 200$ or under per week.
I really don't think she's going to find someone to care for the babies in her home with that rate. And daycare is much more.

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Anonymous wrote:You haven't said how many hours a week you would be working but, assuming a 40 hour work week, at $250, each family isn't even paying you minimum wage. I mean, I think you should get at least whatever the minimum wage is in your area from each family. Federal minimum wage is $7.25 an hour but it could be higher in your area.

I just don't know how they can think that $500/week is an acceptable living wage, especially since you won't be paid over the summer. Really, it sounds to me like these families cannot afford a nanny and need to just go the daycare route.

47.5 hours a week. It works out to about 5$ an hour each family, straight time, or 10$ an hour together.

Anonymous wrote:You haven't said how many hours a week you would be working but, assuming a 40 hour work week, at $250, each family isn't even paying you minimum wage. I mean, I think you should get at least whatever the minimum wage is in your area from each family. Federal minimum wage is $7.25 an hour but it could be higher in your area.

I just don't know how they can think that $500/week is an acceptable living wage, especially since you won't be paid over the summer. Really, it sounds to me like these families cannot afford a nanny and need to just go the daycare route.

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Anonymous wrote:I would consider it but keep looking. If they aren't paying summers, are they paying for all the days off for the teacher holidays. I understand the one mom's attitude as at that point, I'd just go to a day care, but I would be concerned at the level of negotiating. If each set of parents has two teachers, between the two of them depending on where they live, they have decent income. In some areas, child care is very low but I would be worried given some of the comments they made. I would take it if you had no other options but keep looking.

Each family has 1 teacher, 1 office worker. The area they live in is rather high COL, but that is their issue, not mine. I'm still interviewing, and still keeping my options open, but I am honestly interested in the job. They are paying all school holidays/vacation (approx 4 weeks of paid vacation for 44weeks of work).

I've liked reading everyone's opinion. At this point in my nanny career, when does NF personality trump pay (as long as I can pay my bills, of course)

Anonymous wrote:I would consider it but keep looking. If they aren't paying summers, are they paying for all the days off for the teacher holidays. I understand the one mom's attitude as at that point, I'd just go to a day care, but I would be concerned at the level of negotiating. If each set of parents has two teachers, between the two of them depending on where they live, they have decent income. In some areas, child care is very low but I would be worried given some of the comments they made. I would take it if you had no other options but keep looking.

Anonymous wrote:How will you afford summers off with your son when you have a reduced income and aren't getting paid summers?

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I don't know how you could afford to live on that salary, especially with a child. Keep looking.


My current living expenses are barely a 1/2 of my taken home pay. All of the "extra" money with my current position goes toward activities/vacations/lessons for my son. We can live on much less. We just have a lot more fun in life with the type of salary I have now.

As you mentioned in your post, OP, you are not in DC and the salary you receive now is phenomenal. Part of your decision process needs to be considering your chances of finding another job with such a phenomenal salary for a single child. Frankly, even in DC, the rate you're making now would have been high and finding another position at the same rate would be difficult. However, if you think you can due to the market in your area, then sure, pass on this opportunity. If not, maybe adjust your lifestyle. If your expenses are so low vs. your take home, you could likely swing this new situation. Additionally, it is no small thing to have a job you love with wonderful working conditions and great families. That might be worth the differential in rate depending on your other options.

As for the PPs who apparently didn't read your post and are automatically telling you to reject because of the rate...take them with a grain of salt. They may think every nanny should make $20+/h for one child with no extra work, but the market says otherwise and listening to this bad advice could keep you out of a job.

I don't know how you could afford to live on that salary, especially with a child. Keep looking.


My current living expenses are barely a 1/2 of my taken home pay. All of the "extra" money with my current position goes toward activities/vacations/lessons for my son. We can live on much less. We just have a lot more fun in life with the type of salary I have now.