OP, I disagree that when your nanny is "off" she has to socialize w/the family.
As a working nanny, trust me on this. Childcare is physically and mentally exhausting work, yet rewarding. Regardless, we ALL need a break every now and then. You most certainly do not want your nanny to get burned out do you?? Because a burned out nanny is never a good thing.

So let your nanny go out and do her thing. She is entitled. Very.

Regarding the BF and her having sex in her room, I think you have a right to talk to her about this. Since there are young children close by, it isn't a good thing for them to hear the bed springs banging and the nanny moaning in pleasure for three days straight.
I would advise her to take her sleepovers to her BF's house from now on.

Agree there is no way this post is real. Highly doubt most MBs are this crazy - nor that they would continue to come back and post their case when all are uniform in telling hr she is nuts.

Op here.

I have addressed that I am not trolling. I am not asking her to do back breaking labor, I am simply asking that she be part of the household.

Anonymous wrote:This is the op. I don't know if nanny has posted here before. Not my issue. I am however annoyed by the way that she acts about helping out around the house on her days off.


How is this post similar? I don't even really care. I have nothing to do with that.

OP read what you wrote. You're ANNOYED because your EMPLOYEE doesn't work for FREE on her DAYS OFF ie. not getting paid, off duty, on her own time, free to move about the country!! If you are for real, listen to your friend. She's right. You just want your nanny to help you for free. You also need to check your feelings for this nanny, because the prospect of her marrying her boyfriend should not stress you to the point that it is. She is your employee. Can you imagine your boss fretting because you're not "helping" at work on your off days? Or giving more than a cursory shit that you might get married??? You'd think your boss was a nutter.

Holy cow! OP is nuts if this is real.

Anonymous wrote:If this isn't a troll, OP may be one of the most pathetic people ive ever come across. But I'm 99% it is a troll

+10000

If this isn't a troll, OP may be one of the most pathetic people ive ever come across. But I'm 99% it is a troll

This is the op. I don't know if nanny has posted here before. Not my issue. I am however annoyed by the way that she acts about helping out around the house on her days off.


How is this post similar? I don't even really care. I have nothing to do with that.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It's really pathetic that someone's life is so sad they have nothing better to do on a Saturday night than to make up a post trying to make an MB look crazy. NO ONE would think this is legitimate because even the bad MBs out there wouldn't admit to acting like this and write a post about it. OP - it would have seemed more real if you had written it from a nannies perspective.

You think crazy mbs don't exist? Lol.

Oh they do exist but they wouldn't be spending their Saturday posting on here. Plus as a PP said, this is VERY similar to a previous thread posted by a supposed nanny. Both the story and the writing style and bad grammar are the same.

Anonymous wrote:It's really pathetic that someone's life is so sad they have nothing better to do on a Saturday night than to make up a post trying to make an MB look crazy. NO ONE would think this is legitimate because even the bad MBs out there wouldn't admit to acting like this and write a post about it. OP - it would have seemed more real if you had written it from a nannies perspective.

You think crazy mbs don't exist? Lol.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:She's can f out side the house,but not inside ,this is is orrrrbnlljgttujmhgi

No, I would prefer if she would hang out with the family more. I had to wrangle the kids by myself at the park yesterday. I had to feed them also... by myself. She and the BF just walked by and didn't offer to help me out at all. She said that her and him are going out to early dinner at 5 and would like to take the girls. HELL YES. I have been dealing with them alone for 2 days now.

She's your nanny, not your parenting partner. If you want her help you need to pay for it. This is her time off. Why on earth would you expect her to pitch in and help you take care of your kids on her day off?

I was a l/i nanny for a couple different families. My time off was just that...my time off. No child-related duties. My employers in both situations were great about keeping the kids away from me on my time off. If I happened to be in the kitchen getting myself something to eat and one of the kids wandered in and asked for a drink I was happy to get it, but if my employers caught the kids asking me for something on my day off they were reminded not to bother me. Then my employers reminded me to send the kids to them b/c I wasn't expected to help on my time off. That being said I was welcome to join them when I wanted on my time off, but not expected to pitch in to help out.

You need to develop some respectful boundaries with your nanny. Her time off should be just that. She should not be expected to help you on her time off just b/c she is in the house. If hearing her having sex bothers you ask her to keep it to the hours everyone is sleeping or go to her boyfriend's place during the day for such activities.

It's really pathetic that someone's life is so sad they have nothing better to do on a Saturday night than to make up a post trying to make an MB look crazy. NO ONE would think this is legitimate because even the bad MBs out there wouldn't admit to acting like this and write a post about it. OP - it would have seemed more real if you had written it from a nannies perspective.

Anonymous wrote:

What if she marries him and leaves us?

-OP

Dear lord
You are in love with her!!!!!!
It's ok. Maybe you two would make a perfect couple!

Or her boyfriend may like both of you and all three of you can have sex all day.

Get a life troll!

OMG can you guys please stop giving into this crazy person who clearly has nothing better to do on a Saturday night then troll DCUM?

This is such a painfully obvious troll post. Even the stairs setup -- taken from the post about the nanny who lived upstairs with a door without a lock. The kid walked in on her when she was having sex.