Anonymous
03/25/2014 18:38
Subject: The $15 per hour nanny
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Hopefully, she did mean that she wouldn't be able to do her job without you, specifically, but I doubt she meant that.
If you got another job and left your NF, I'm sure they would continue to go to work. They would just have to do it with a new nanny.
No one is indispensable.
One of my former MBs told me I was "irreplaceable", so when I decided to move, she said she'd be doing the fulltime childcare until preschool. Apparently, you don't have a clue how each mother feels about her nanny.
What people say and what they do is two different things. That MB must have loved you, but if she had to replace you, she could and she would have. No one is indispensable.
She did exactly what she said. Since I was moving, she did her own childcare. She didn't want anyone else.
FYI, people of her caliber don't lie.
Do you know anyone like that?
Anonymous
03/25/2014 12:54
Subject: The $15 per hour nanny
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Hopefully, she did mean that she wouldn't be able to do her job without you, specifically, but I doubt she meant that.
If you got another job and left your NF, I'm sure they would continue to go to work. They would just have to do it with a new nanny.
No one is indispensable.
One of my former MBs told me I was "irreplaceable", so when I decided to move, she said she'd be doing the fulltime childcare until preschool. Apparently, you don't have a clue how each mother feels about her nanny.
What people say and what they do is two different things. That MB must have loved you, but if she had to replace you, she could and she would have. No one is indispensable.
Anonymous
03/23/2014 00:32
Subject: The $15 per hour nanny
Anonymous wrote:Hopefully, she did mean that she wouldn't be able to do her job without you, specifically, but I doubt she meant that.
If you got another job and left your NF, I'm sure they would continue to go to work. They would just have to do it with a new nanny.
No one is indispensable.
One of my former MBs told me I was "irreplaceable", so when I decided to move, she said she'd be doing the fulltime childcare until preschool. Apparently, you don't have a clue how each mother feels about her nanny.
Anonymous
02/18/2014 01:04
Subject: The $15 per hour nanny
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:If the next sitter is shitty, they may be doing their own childcare for a while. Then how do they get to the office? Piggyback?
People who make fortunes don't have to report to the office every day.
You're right. But they love their jobs, just as much as I love mine.
Anonymous
02/17/2014 00:28
Subject: Re:The $15 per hour nanny
Anonymous wrote:My nanny does $15/hr x 50 hrs wk. = $750/ wk or $3000 per month. We pay taxes for her, she gets holiday, sick and and holiday pay netting Appx at least $36k yr. We pay per hr babysitting extra so she likely does $50k NET per year. It's the net that makes it a really higher wage than $15 hr. More like she's doing $25 hr not including all the OT. That's Hella better than a lot of jobs. All the nannies in my area alexandria make a net salary. Therefore ARE YOU kidding asking me your question OP? I think nannies have it awesome in N VA! I don't get why people think nannies make a poor living - to net $50k means you have a $70k job you all get this right? I thought everyone here pays tax for nannies no ? That's a huge difference in pay!
No, not everyone pays taxes for nannies. Most employers I know follow what happens in the real world - you get paid a gross salary, and everything else is your responsibility.
By the way, if you pay your nanny's taxes, that's income to her and she owes taxes on that.
Anonymous
02/16/2014 14:29
Subject: Re:The $15 per hour nanny
My nanny does $15/hr x 50 hrs wk. = $750/ wk or $3000 per month. We pay taxes for her, she gets holiday, sick and and holiday pay netting Appx at least $36k yr. We pay per hr babysitting extra so she likely does $50k NET per year. It's the net that makes it a really higher wage than $15 hr. More like she's doing $25 hr not including all the OT. That's Hella better than a lot of jobs. All the nannies in my area alexandria make a net salary. Therefore ARE YOU kidding asking me your question OP? I think nannies have it awesome in N VA! I don't get why people think nannies make a poor living - to net $50k means you have a $70k job you all get this right? I thought everyone here pays tax for nannies no ? That's a huge difference in pay!
Anonymous
02/16/2014 14:25
Subject: Re:The $15 per hour nanny
My nanny does $15/hr x 50 hrs wk. = $750/ wk or $3000 per month. We pay taxes for her, she gets holiday, sick and and holiday pay netting Appx at least $36k yr. We pay per hr babysitting extra so she likely does $50k NET per year. It's the net that makes it a really higher wage than $15 hr. More like she's doing $25 hr not including all the OT. That's Hella better than a lot of jobs. All the nannies in my area alexandria make a net salary. Therefore ARE YOU kidding asking me your question OP? I think nannies have it awesome in N VA!
Anonymous
02/15/2014 23:00
Subject: The $15 per hour nanny
Can I buy some pot from you?Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:signed, someone who has never had a great nanny.Anonymous wrote:Hopefully, she did mean that she wouldn't be able to do her job without you, specifically, but I doubt she meant that.
If you got another job and left your NF, I'm sure they would continue to go to work. They would just have to do it with a new nanny.
No one is indispensable.
Cemeteries around the world are full of indispensable people. Some of them might even have been nannies.
Anonymous
02/15/2014 16:38
Subject: The $15 per hour nanny
Anonymous wrote:signed, someone who has never had a great nanny.Anonymous wrote:Hopefully, she did mean that she wouldn't be able to do her job without you, specifically, but I doubt she meant that.
If you got another job and left your NF, I'm sure they would continue to go to work. They would just have to do it with a new nanny.
No one is indispensable.
Cemeteries around the world are full of indispensable people. Some of them might even have been nannies.
Anonymous
02/15/2014 16:37
Subject: The $15 per hour nanny
Anonymous wrote:If the next sitter is shitty, they may be doing their own childcare for a while. Then how do they get to the office? Piggyback?
People who make fortunes don't have to report to the office every day.
Anonymous
02/15/2014 11:53
Subject: The $15 per hour nanny
signed, someone who has never had a great nanny.Anonymous wrote:Hopefully, she did mean that she wouldn't be able to do her job without you, specifically, but I doubt she meant that.
If you got another job and left your NF, I'm sure they would continue to go to work. They would just have to do it with a new nanny.
No one is indispensable.
Anonymous
02/15/2014 11:41
Subject: The $15 per hour nanny
Hopefully, she did mean that she wouldn't be able to do her job without you, specifically, but I doubt she meant that.
If you got another job and left your NF, I'm sure they would continue to go to work. They would just have to do it with a new nanny.
No one is indispensable.
If you got another job and left your NF, I'm sure they would continue to go to work. They would just have to do it with a new nanny.
No one is indispensable.
Anonymous
02/15/2014 01:53
Subject: The $15 per hour nanny
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Many parents with high standards, first identify a few of the very best candidates they can find and can afford.
Like any wise consumer, they conduct an overall cost analasis (usually informally), and then proceed accordingly. If they're lucky, they contract their top choice nanny who accepts their compensation package offer.
Most high income parents will pay whatever it takes to avoid the endless nonsense we see everyday on this forum. They know a smart investment when they see it, and aren't about to loose out.
The penny pinching parents, on the other hand, get what they pay for: one headache after another, and then they wonder why all the smart parents aren't here to. The wise parents are too busy making a fortune to keep their nanny well compensated and happy.
That's not why wise parents make a fortune. They'd be making a fortune quite regardless of whether they employ nannies or not.
But hopefully the nanny they hire writes in English with fewer mistakes than you.
Why are you being super stupid? They aren't taking the baby to work with them, lol, and they can't leave the baby home alone.
So how are they going to work without a nanny, Einstein?
First, it doesn't take a fortune to employ a nanny.
Second, if you were to poll top earners with a question of "list top five reasons why you are making a fortune", the answer "to keep my nanny well-compensated and happy" would turn up approximately zero times. So it's ridiculous on the face of it to say that "wise parents are busy making a fortune to keep their nanny well-compensated". I'm afraid the nanny's compensation is not the reason they work. Or make a fortune.
A well paid top notch nanny is what enables you to go to work every day, and focus on your job 100% so you need not worry about the kids.
In all my years of being a nanny, I've never needed to call in sick. I do what I can to stay healthy. The families are always more than happy to buy all the organic food I want. Their investment pays off very well for them, and for me.
My amazing employer would give me a cut of her annual bonus every year. She was a lobbyist, it was majorly generous. She always told me she wouldn't be able to do her job without me there every day.
Anonymous
02/15/2014 01:46
Subject: The $15 per hour nanny
Anonymous wrote:Every nanny determines her own rates, and you may determine what you want and what you can afford. Same in every sector. There's poor, average, and best, with very few at the top.
Anonymous
02/15/2014 01:44
Subject: The $15 per hour nanny
If the next sitter is shitty, they may be doing their own childcare for a while. Then how do they get to the office? Piggyback?