Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:When everyone started calling themselves a nanny vs. what used to be a sitter, and the middle class started to feel entitled to nanny care, you saw a change in the definition. Middle class parents are looking for a deal. What they want is a reasonably qualified sitter, and whatever extras they can get for the deal.

My advice if you don't want to deal with these kinds of parents, become the type of nanny that truly wealthy people (who know how to hire and treat staff) want to hire; have a degree in a relevant field, extensive experience, glowing references, learn a second language, and refine your "product", and work with an elite agency.

The nanny snobbery is pretty hilarious. You’re the hired help, FFS. Get over yourself.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:When everyone started calling themselves a nanny vs. what used to be a sitter, and the middle class started to feel entitled to nanny care, you saw a change in the definition. Middle class parents are looking for a deal. What they want is a reasonably qualified sitter, and whatever extras they can get for the deal.

My advice if you don't want to deal with these kinds of parents, become the type of nanny that truly wealthy people (who know how to hire and treat staff) want to hire; have a degree in a relevant field, extensive experience, glowing references, learn a second language, and refine your "product", and work with an elite agency.

Interesting perspective to consider.

The problem wiith this is that there simply aren't that many wealthy families who need nannies. THe job market is saturated. In all likelihood you will have to work for a middle class family if you want a job, period.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:When everyone started calling themselves a nanny vs. what used to be a sitter, and the middle class started to feel entitled to nanny care, you saw a change in the definition. Middle class parents are looking for a deal. What they want is a reasonably qualified sitter, and whatever extras they can get for the deal.

My advice if you don't want to deal with these kinds of parents, become the type of nanny that truly wealthy people (who know how to hire and treat staff) want to hire; have a degree in a relevant field, extensive experience, glowing references, learn a second language, and refine your "product", and work with an elite agency.

Interesting perspective to consider.

Anonymous wrote:When everyone started calling themselves a nanny vs. what used to be a sitter, and the middle class started to feel entitled to nanny care, you saw a change in the definition. Middle class parents are looking for a deal. What they want is a reasonably qualified sitter, and whatever extras they can get for the deal.

My advice if you don't want to deal with these kinds of parents, become the type of nanny that truly wealthy people (who know how to hire and treat staff) want to hire; have a degree in a relevant field, extensive experience, glowing references, learn a second language, and refine your "product", and work with an elite agency.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The housekeeper who worked in the home of one of my former employers, used to tell me about the used condoms she'd have to pick out of the sheets every Monday morning.

Making your bed is like washing your undies.
No nanny will do it.

A lot of nannies do the entire family's laundry. Not saying its right or fair, but it is part of the job for many.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My baby and toddler use dishes and silverware, so emptying the dishwasher pertains to them. Also, they need to learn to play somewhat independently - you don't need to watch them right there every second. If you're getting paid that much money it would be great if you were being useful during naptimes too. How hard is it for you to just make a bed?

How hard is it for you to make your own damn bed?

I leave my house at 7am after working out for 45 minutes, walking the dog, nursing two babies, and getting ready for work. So the last thing I need is to add more to that list.

Anonymous wrote:My baby and toddler use dishes and silverware, so emptying the dishwasher pertains to them. Also, they need to learn to play somewhat independently - you don't need to watch them right there every second. If you're getting paid that much money it would be great if you were being useful during naptimes too. How hard is it for you to just make a bed?

Anonymous wrote:When everyone started calling themselves a nanny vs. what used to be a sitter, and the middle class started to feel entitled to nanny care, you saw a change in the definition. Middle class parents are looking for a deal. What they want is a reasonably qualified sitter, and whatever extras they can get for the deal.

My advice if you don't want to deal with these kinds of parents, become the type of nanny that truly wealthy people (who know how to hire and treat staff) want to hire; have a degree in a relevant field, extensive experience, glowing references, learn a second language, and refine your "product", and work with an elite agency.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This old thread is about infant/newborn care. I cannot do anything but hold my newborn charge due to severe reflux. I cannot even figure out how to pee with him in my arms 100% of the time much less make beds and unload dishwashers!!!

Have you at least told the parents that your are out of your element? I feel bad for the kid if you are staying just because you need the income and the child is suffering from your incompetence.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This old thread is about infant/newborn care. I cannot do anything but hold my newborn charge due to severe reflux. I cannot even figure out how to pee with him in my arms 100% of the time much less make beds and unload dishwashers!!!

Have you at least told the parents that your are out of your element? I feel bad for the kid if you are staying just because you need the income and the child is suffering from your incompetence.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This old thread is about infant/newborn care. I cannot do anything but hold my newborn charge due to severe reflux. I cannot even figure out how to pee with him in my arms 100% of the time much less make beds and unload dishwashers!!!

Have you at least told the parents that your are out of your element? I feel bad for the kid if you are staying just because you need the income and the child is suffering from your incompetence.

Anonymous wrote:This old thread is about infant/newborn care. I cannot do anything but hold my newborn charge due to severe reflux. I cannot even figure out how to pee with him in my arms 100% of the time much less make beds and unload dishwashers!!!

Anonymous wrote:I'm a nanny and while my primary responsibility is to take care of the children, I feel like a major reason that my MB and DB have me there is because I am there to make their lives easier so they can enjoy spending time with their children. I do children's laundry, meal prep, cleaning up toys, organizing art supplies, planning activities, making cards for family members birthdays, reading up on developmental issues and organizing toys and books. Some of this is end with the kids input and help. Sometimes we make dinner for the family or we will all told laundry, with the kids matching socks and trying to fold and put away their clothes. Every second of their day doesn't need t be spent by read to, creating art or doing special projects. We do all of those things, but I also involve them with as much around the house as I can because someday they will need to know how to do things like laundry, loading/unloading a dishwasher and organizing. We are teaching them to be people.

I don't do heavy cleaning but if I see that something needs doing and I have time, I do it.