Anonymous
Post 02/02/2025 19:40     Subject: New Mom

Anonymous wrote:Hi, is it okay to post here?

I am a new mom my baby just turned 12 months. We hired a nanny for my daughter when she was 6 months because we had to return to work. My baby girl started walking at 11 months and now she is a pro! Recently, when nanny arrives to work she runs to the door for a hug and when it’s time for nanny to go home most days she cries and doesn’t want nanny to leave?

I want to tell my husband that it makes me sad to see this. Watching my baby girl becoming attached to the nanny. But I need advice on what to say?

I think I want to take some time off work and just be with my baby but we will have to let the nanny go. Has any other moms felt this way?



You should be grateful that you have such a wonderful nanny who loves your child and your child loves her. Children can love more than one person. Your jealousy is going to cause problems and ultimately a loving nanny who has kept your child safe and happy will quit because you taking her life miserable.