Anonymous
Post 08/12/2021 15:29     Subject: Au Pair Thinks Husband and I are her Friends? Where and How to Draw Boundaries
Anonymous wrote:Do the Pizza dinner WITH the kids. Don't allow the encroachment into your social life - she isn't a friend. I think maybe the occasional shopping trip is ok, but no evening activities sans kids. I think that is too wierd.


Encroachment…nice one asshole. Seems like someone hasn’t grown up
Anonymous
Post 05/21/2021 18:46     Subject: Au Pair Thinks Husband and I are her Friends? Where and How to Draw Boundaries
Forme au pair here...Just give her a gift card and get her a cake to eat with you and the kids. She will appreciate the extra money on the gift card and you'll have a nice detail showing appreciation.