Anonymous
02/26/2020 11:51
Subject: au pairs and dieting
Anonymous wrote:Unclench. Like everyone has told you, you need boundaries. That she lives at your house doesn’t mean you own her.
If it’s such a big issue for you, get an overweight AP next time.
Hmmmmm...never said that (OP). Also don't know what the relevance is of the AP's weight?????
Anonymous
02/26/2020 11:50
Subject: au pairs and dieting
I appreciate everyone's input and definitely will not speak to our AP about it. For those who say I have boundary issues--please note that I did not *act* on anything. I turned to this forum for guidance to check myself and I appreciate the insight from those who were able to recognize that.
Anonymous
02/26/2020 02:42
Subject: au pairs and dieting
Unclench. Like everyone has told you, you need boundaries. That she lives at your house doesn’t mean you own her.
If it’s such a big issue for you, get an overweight AP next time.
If it’s such a big issue for you, get an overweight AP next time.