Anonymous
01/13/2019 12:06
Subject: Can AP initiate rematch without HF approval? Leaving match 3 months early
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:She’s an at will employee and an adult. We cut one our APs 5 months short to take an amazing opportunity in a family art-immersion program in Taos which didn’t allow domestics. We gave her 2 weeks notice. It was the right thing for us.
You only had 2 weeks notice? How did you get everything done that fast?!
Same ilk as OP. I'm sure the poster knew much earlier ,but blindsided the AP for selfish self serving gain. Both people are unethical and frankly gross.
The gist of thre OP....how can I make sure to F%ck my AP over first?
Anonymous
01/12/2019 23:59
Subject: Can AP initiate rematch without HF approval? Leaving match 3 months early
Anonymous wrote:She’s an at will employee and an adult. We cut one our APs 5 months short to take an amazing opportunity in a family art-immersion program in Taos which didn’t allow domestics. We gave her 2 weeks notice. It was the right thing for us.
You only had 2 weeks notice? How did you get everything done that fast?!
Anonymous
01/09/2019 16:52
Subject: Can AP initiate rematch without HF approval? Leaving match 3 months early
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I’d talk to her sooner than later. She may be very happy to end her au pair year 3 months early, especially since it will be summer and she can probably get a summer job at home before going back to school. I would offer to pay her a portion of the remaining weekly stipend and her plane ticket home, since the agency won’t pay for au pairs leaving early. If you have a good relationship with her and she’s already making plans for after her year she may agree to this. You could also offer to help her find a summer rematch family - I know a lot of families who would love a summer au pair and they’re not easy to find since the program is a minimum of a year.
A little off topic, but how early can APs go home with the agency ticket?
30 days.
Anonymous
01/09/2019 15:57
Subject: Can AP initiate rematch without HF approval? Leaving match 3 months early
She’s an at will employee and an adult. We cut one our APs 5 months short to take an amazing opportunity in a family art-immersion program in Taos which didn’t allow domestics. We gave her 2 weeks notice. It was the right thing for us.
Anonymous
01/09/2019 15:04
Subject: Can AP initiate rematch without HF approval? Leaving match 3 months early
I don’t think they can go any earlier than a few days (maybe a week?) before the end of their year. We had an ap who wanted to leave a month early but she bought her own ticket.
Anonymous
01/09/2019 14:51
Subject: Can AP initiate rematch without HF approval? Leaving match 3 months early
Anonymous wrote:I’d talk to her sooner than later. She may be very happy to end her au pair year 3 months early, especially since it will be summer and she can probably get a summer job at home before going back to school. I would offer to pay her a portion of the remaining weekly stipend and her plane ticket home, since the agency won’t pay for au pairs leaving early. If you have a good relationship with her and she’s already making plans for after her year she may agree to this. You could also offer to help her find a summer rematch family - I know a lot of families who would love a summer au pair and they’re not easy to find since the program is a minimum of a year.
A little off topic, but how early can APs go home with the agency ticket?
Anonymous
01/09/2019 13:38
Subject: Can AP initiate rematch without HF approval? Leaving match 3 months early
Anonymous wrote:I’d talk to her sooner than later. She may be very happy to end her au pair year 3 months early, especially since it will be summer and she can probably get a summer job at home before going back to school. I would offer to pay her a portion of the remaining weekly stipend and her plane ticket home, since the agency won’t pay for au pairs leaving early. If you have a good relationship with her and she’s already making plans for after her year she may agree to this. You could also offer to help her find a summer rematch family - I know a lot of families who would love a summer au pair and they’re not easy to find since the program is a minimum of a year.
+1 Please let her know now and make it worth her while to stay until you leave. It's the honorable thing to do, since you are breaking the contract.