Anonymous
Post 12/16/2018 10:36     Subject: Re:Do employers have the right to change nanny’s schedule?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:A nanny contract means nothing. I don’t know why people bother with them.


FYI, a contract is legally enforceable, that’s why I insist on a contract.


How, exactly? You will spend more suing your employer than you would ever receive in compensation.


No, small claims can cover my costs and the amount of money due when I’m given notice.


It won't cover 6 months of lost income when your nanny family asks you to work on Friday when that wasn't in the contract, you say, "Hell, no, we have a 4-day-a-week contract, and you can't change that!" And then they give you two-weeks notice with 6 months left to go on your contract. To sue for ix months of wages (and probably lose), you couldn't use small claims court.
Anonymous
Post 12/16/2018 09:35     Subject: Re:Do employers have the right to change nanny’s schedule?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:A nanny contract means nothing. I don’t know why people bother with them.


FYI, a contract is legally enforceable, that’s why I insist on a contract.


How, exactly? You will spend more suing your employer than you would ever receive in compensation.


No, small claims can cover my costs and the amount of money due when I’m given notice.
Anonymous
Post 12/16/2018 09:14     Subject: Re:Do employers have the right to change nanny’s schedule?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:You have a contract that states four days a week. You cannot (or should not) fire her if she refuses to change her contract.


Um, yes you can "fire" her if she can't do five days a week. It wouldn't really be a firing, it would be a letting her go due to schedule conflicts. Nothing wrong with that as long as you give her the standard 2 weeks. Also, if you live in an "at will" state like VA then she can be let go for any reason.


Your attitude will have nannies working in a revolving door. This nanny has been with her charge for three years. If not legally wrong, it is morally wrong to let a good nanny go because the employer’s schedule changed.


Hmm.

So I guess MB should go to her own boss and say she can't work the new hours if the nanny doesn't like it.
Anonymous
Post 12/15/2018 11:01     Subject: Re:Do employers have the right to change nanny’s schedule?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Employer here. I would be wrong to terminate a nanny because she was unable to work an additional day that she was never contracted to work. Legally, it is fine but morally and ethically wrong to fire someone who has been caring for your child well for three years.

I am honestly shocked this is even being debated.


NO ONE IS SAYING TO FIRE HER. Everyone is saying that the family should offer her the extra day first, and if she can't do it, then they have to figure out if it will work out to keep her. The OP didn't say if the nanny is currently working part time, or a full 40 hours, or if the new schedule would change the hours as well.

I can't believe it's a debate that if a family's needs change, and the nanny can't meet the new schedule, the family might not be able to keep the nanny on. Her job is going to end sometime, anyway.



All jobs are going to end sometime, anyway. The family ‘s needs may change and she has already been accommodating - but adding a day is too much to expect. Ask - fine. But do not expect it.

I can’t imagine if my boss/company asked me to work an extra day or face dismissal. I have a family to consider as do most nannies.


You can't? This happens all the time. You are generally eligible for unemployment if you quit under those circumstances, but it's hardly unheard of!
Anonymous
Post 12/15/2018 09:30     Subject: Do employers have the right to change nanny’s schedule?
Anonymous wrote:For me it depends on the reason you need 5 days. If it’s so you can lounge around at home and interfere with my day with the kids instead of going to work, then no thank you. If you’re going to work that day then of course I would change my schedule but I wouldn’t be happy about it. I’d do it to keep my job.

+1
Anonymous
Post 12/14/2018 23:16     Subject: Do employers have the right to change nanny’s schedule?
For me it depends on the reason you need 5 days. If it’s so you can lounge around at home and interfere with my day with the kids instead of going to work, then no thank you. If you’re going to work that day then of course I would change my schedule but I wouldn’t be happy about it. I’d do it to keep my job.
Anonymous
Post 12/14/2018 21:25     Subject: Do employers have the right to change nanny’s schedule?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:You say, "Nanny Larla, our needs have changed. We're going to need coverage on Mondays now. Is that something you're interested in? If not, we could hire someone just for Mondays [if, indeed, you're willing to do that], or we will need to hire someone new."

There is no rule that a job has to stay the same forever. You need to follow the notice/severance rules in your contract, but if the job you hired her for no longer exists, give her right of first refusal on the new one, and move on.


This.



Why follow the severance rules when she isn’t following the schedule as agreed to in the contract?


Sometimes things change in life and you have to deal with it. That’s what OP is doing and that’s what her nanny will have to do. No one owes you anything and if you want more stability in your career, don’t be a nanny. I am a career nanny who is also an adult who has a grasp on reality.


How do you know what OP is doing? Maybe she just wants a day away from her kid.
Anonymous
Post 12/14/2018 15:24     Subject: Do employers have the right to change nanny’s schedule?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:You say, "Nanny Larla, our needs have changed. We're going to need coverage on Mondays now. Is that something you're interested in? If not, we could hire someone just for Mondays [if, indeed, you're willing to do that], or we will need to hire someone new."

There is no rule that a job has to stay the same forever. You need to follow the notice/severance rules in your contract, but if the job you hired her for no longer exists, give her right of first refusal on the new one, and move on.


This.



Why follow the severance rules when she isn’t following the schedule as agreed to in the contract?


Sometimes things change in life and you have to deal with it. That’s what OP is doing and that’s what her nanny will have to do. No one owes you anything and if you want more stability in your career, don’t be a nanny. I am a career nanny who is also an adult who has a grasp on reality.
Anonymous
Post 12/14/2018 15:20     Subject: Do employers have the right to change nanny’s schedule?
No one needs a nanny forever.

Jobs change over time. Either nanny and parents can change with them, or decide they’re no longer a match.
Anonymous
Post 12/14/2018 14:56     Subject: Re:Do employers have the right to change nanny’s schedule?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Employer here. I would be wrong to terminate a nanny because she was unable to work an additional day that she was never contracted to work. Legally, it is fine but morally and ethically wrong to fire someone who has been caring for your child well for three years.

I am honestly shocked this is even being debated.


NO ONE IS SAYING TO FIRE HER. Everyone is saying that the family should offer her the extra day first, and if she can't do it, then they have to figure out if it will work out to keep her. The OP didn't say if the nanny is currently working part time, or a full 40 hours, or if the new schedule would change the hours as well.

I can't believe it's a debate that if a family's needs change, and the nanny can't meet the new schedule, the family might not be able to keep the nanny on. Her job is going to end sometime, anyway.



All jobs are going to end sometime, anyway. The family ‘s needs may change and she has already been accommodating - but adding a day is too much to expect. Ask - fine. But do not expect it.

I can’t imagine if my boss/company asked me to work an extra day or face dismissal. I have a family to consider as do most nannies.
Anonymous
Post 12/14/2018 14:48     Subject: Re:Do employers have the right to change nanny’s schedule?
Anonymous wrote:Employer here. I would be wrong to terminate a nanny because she was unable to work an additional day that she was never contracted to work. Legally, it is fine but morally and ethically wrong to fire someone who has been caring for your child well for three years.

I am honestly shocked this is even being debated.


NO ONE IS SAYING TO FIRE HER. Everyone is saying that the family should offer her the extra day first, and if she can't do it, then they have to figure out if it will work out to keep her. The OP didn't say if the nanny is currently working part time, or a full 40 hours, or if the new schedule would change the hours as well.

I can't believe it's a debate that if a family's needs change, and the nanny can't meet the new schedule, the family might not be able to keep the nanny on. Her job is going to end sometime, anyway.
Anonymous
Post 12/14/2018 14:40     Subject: Re:Do employers have the right to change nanny’s schedule?
Employer here. I would be wrong to terminate a nanny because she was unable to work an additional day that she was never contracted to work. Legally, it is fine but morally and ethically wrong to fire someone who has been caring for your child well for three years.

I am honestly shocked this is even being debated.
Anonymous
Post 12/14/2018 14:34     Subject: Do employers have the right to change nanny’s schedule?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:You say, "Nanny Larla, our needs have changed. We're going to need coverage on Mondays now. Is that something you're interested in? If not, we could hire someone just for Mondays [if, indeed, you're willing to do that], or we will need to hire someone new."

There is no rule that a job has to stay the same forever. You need to follow the notice/severance rules in your contract, but if the job you hired her for no longer exists, give her right of first refusal on the new one, and move on.


This.



Why follow the severance rules when she isn’t following the schedule as agreed to in the contract?


Because she is ending the agreement, and thus, the job. The nanny could take her to small claims court if she doesn't follow the termination clauses in the contract. Those are enforceable.

Here is the explanation from GTM payroll services. You can read the entire article here: https://gtm.com/household/nannies-at-will-employees/

When a nanny and a family sign a long-term agreement for employment, it is not a legally binding contract with regard to the exact amount of time the nanny will be employed. Rather it’s setting expectations for the employment relationship, and serves as a commitment the family is making to the nanny, showing that they want the nanny employed for the length of time designated by the agreement, but does not guarantee that length of time. However, if there is language in the agreement that states a nanny must give two weeks’ notice before leaving, and then the nanny quits without giving such notice, the agreement can be viewed as a legally binding document should the family wish to pursue legal action against the nanny for violating the terms of the agreement.
Anonymous
Post 12/14/2018 14:29     Subject: Re:Do employers have the right to change nanny’s schedule?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:A nanny contract means nothing. I don’t know why people bother with them.


FYI, a contract is legally enforceable, that’s why I insist on a contract.


How, exactly? You will spend more suing your employer than you would ever receive in compensation.
Anonymous
Post 12/14/2018 13:56     Subject: Do employers have the right to change nanny’s schedule?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:You say, "Nanny Larla, our needs have changed. We're going to need coverage on Mondays now. Is that something you're interested in? If not, we could hire someone just for Mondays [if, indeed, you're willing to do that], or we will need to hire someone new."

There is no rule that a job has to stay the same forever. You need to follow the notice/severance rules in your contract, but if the job you hired her for no longer exists, give her right of first refusal on the new one, and move on.


This.



Why follow the severance rules when she isn’t following the schedule as agreed to in the contract?