Anonymous
Post 07/01/2018 10:19     Subject: Afternoon sitter asking for days off

Why wouldn't ypu? Every reason you gave for not wanting to drive her makes you sounds like a jealous, judgemental jerk. It's not inconvenient for you, she's trying to help pay, you don't say she has asked for anything special ...

So go ahead and stop driving her so that she can experience some additional hardship in her life, which will feel more "fair" to you, but don't believe that makes you a good person. It's kind of mean and petty.
Anonymous
Post 07/01/2018 09:02     Subject: Re:Afternoon sitter asking for days off

op: OK, let's say I drop the martyr act. Do I continue to drive her?