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Anonymous wrote:Op here. We are only expecting her to handle the baby housekeeping, meal prep ( chop veggies) maybe 2-3 times a week, and bring in any packages. As he gets older, we I’ll epdct her to make baby food on occasion, ask her to research activities, and clean up things like the high chair. We do not expect anything did us beyond meal prep. We are offering $20 for 40 hours a week, plus OT for 2 date nights a month. We will offer guaranteed hours, 5 weeks of paid vacation - grandparents will take baby 2 weeks out of the year, and the rest with be holidays, plus a week of her choosing, 5 sick days, and all federal holidays paid. We think this is a generous package.

You are fine, OP. It is a decent package but not a "generous" one. $20 an hour (for a legal employee) is middle-to-low.

But I wouldn't describe as what you are asking for as "light housekeeping". A nanny should do anything and everything for the child in her care (laundry, food prep, washing bottles, disinfecting toys, keeping the baby's room neat, emptying the diaper genie).

Anonymous wrote:Op here. We don’t ever want the nanny to feel take advantage of or lose her to a better offer. We will outline what is expected and put in added duties
(pertaining to child) as his needs change. We think we are offering above competitive rates and benefits.

Anonymous wrote:Op here. We are only expecting her to handle the baby housekeeping, meal prep ( chop veggies) maybe 2-3 times a week, and bring in any packages. As he gets older, we I’ll epdct her to make baby food on occasion, ask her to research activities, and clean up things like the high chair. We do not expect anything did us beyond meal prep. We are offering $20 for 40 hours a week, plus OT for 2 date nights a month. We will offer guaranteed hours, 5 weeks of paid vacation - grandparents will take baby 2 weeks out of the year, and the rest with be holidays, plus a week of her choosing, 5 sick days, and all federal holidays paid. We think this is a generous package.

Anonymous wrote:How good isn’t the pay and benefits? Most employers think they are paying a good wage, but it’s low for what they ask.

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Anonymous wrote:I don't think it is too much, OP. A nanny generally does anything and everything related to the baby so the baby's laundry is generally expected. As is washing his bottles and dishes(when he used dishes). I have also done parents meal prep - I cannot cook but have chopped vegetables, made fruit salad, and started a simple slow cooker recipe before. Once my charge got older, I also made all her purees homemade and fresh every day and all of her marketing. I took over ordering for my charge (diapers, shampoo, etc) early on now do all the household ordering and the parents staples. I also handle payment to the twice weekly housekeeper, accept packages and stay available for handyman, cable guy, etc.

As long as you are clear that the engagement and teaching of your baby comes first, I see no problem with doing more.

Nannies to do not meal prep or put away groceries.

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Anonymous wrote:Op here. We are only expecting her to handle the baby housekeeping, meal prep ( chop veggies) maybe 2-3 times a week, and bring in any packages. As he gets older, we I’ll epdct her to make baby food on occasion, ask her to research activities, and clean up things like the high chair. We do not expect anything did us beyond meal prep. We are offering $20 for 40 hours a week, plus OT for 2 date nights a month. We will offer guaranteed hours, 5 weeks of paid vacation - grandparents will take baby 2 weeks out of the year, and the rest with be holidays, plus a week of her choosing, 5 sick days, and all federal holidays paid. We think this is a generous package.

That sounds perfectly reasonable although personally I think meal prep (for the family) is gray area, if your nanny doesn't mind then great.

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Anonymous wrote:Op here. We are only expecting her to handle the baby housekeeping, meal prep ( chop veggies) maybe 2-3 times a week, and bring in any packages. As he gets older, we I’ll epdct her to make baby food on occasion, ask her to research activities, and clean up things like the high chair. We do not expect anything did us beyond meal prep. We are offering $20 for 40 hours a week, plus OT for 2 date nights a month. We will offer guaranteed hours, 5 weeks of paid vacation - grandparents will take baby 2 weeks out of the year, and the rest with be holidays, plus a week of her choosing, 5 sick days, and all federal holidays paid. We think this is a generous package.

That sounds perfectly reasonable although personally I think meal prep (for the family) is gray area, if your nanny doesn't mind then great.

$20 hour for only 40 hours is low. Most nannies prefer to work closer to 50.

I agree $20 is pretty low. But it’s a 3 month old ans s/he might be sleeping a lot. I’m a nanny and I don’t like to work over 40 hours a week. I get paid well so it’s not something I really need. I do have opportunity for OT though. But I kindly decline if I can’t stay late. Also, most nannies should be aware of their finances and if 40 hours at $20/h is too low then they should not accept the position.

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Anonymous wrote:Op here. We are only expecting her to handle the baby housekeeping, meal prep ( chop veggies) maybe 2-3 times a week, and bring in any packages. As he gets older, we I’ll epdct her to make baby food on occasion, ask her to research activities, and clean up things like the high chair. We do not expect anything did us beyond meal prep. We are offering $20 for 40 hours a week, plus OT for 2 date nights a month. We will offer guaranteed hours, 5 weeks of paid vacation - grandparents will take baby 2 weeks out of the year, and the rest with be holidays, plus a week of her choosing, 5 sick days, and all federal holidays paid. We think this is a generous package.

That sounds perfectly reasonable although personally I think meal prep (for the family) is gray area, if your nanny doesn't mind then great.

$20 hour for only 40 hours is low. Most nannies prefer to work closer to 50.

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Anonymous wrote:Op here. We are only expecting her to handle the baby housekeeping, meal prep ( chop veggies) maybe 2-3 times a week, and bring in any packages. As he gets older, we I’ll epdct her to make baby food on occasion, ask her to research activities, and clean up things like the high chair. We do not expect anything did us beyond meal prep. We are offering $20 for 40 hours a week, plus OT for 2 date nights a month. We will offer guaranteed hours, 5 weeks of paid vacation - grandparents will take baby 2 weeks out of the year, and the rest with be holidays, plus a week of her choosing, 5 sick days, and all federal holidays paid. We think this is a generous package.

That sounds perfectly reasonable although personally I think meal prep (for the family) is gray area, if your nanny doesn't mind then great.

Anonymous wrote:Op here. We are only expecting her to handle the baby housekeeping, meal prep ( chop veggies) maybe 2-3 times a week, and bring in any packages. As he gets older, we I’ll epdct her to make baby food on occasion, ask her to research activities, and clean up things like the high chair. We do not expect anything did us beyond meal prep. We are offering $20 for 40 hours a week, plus OT for 2 date nights a month. We will offer guaranteed hours, 5 weeks of paid vacation - grandparents will take baby 2 weeks out of the year, and the rest with be holidays, plus a week of her choosing, 5 sick days, and all federal holidays paid. We think this is a generous package.

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Anonymous wrote:I would lay out specifics at the start. And from our experience ask for daily unloading of the dishwasher. Doesn’t sound like an issue at first but I ran into the situation where our nanny was loading all her dishes she would use during the day for herself, the baby dishes, and bottles daily. I would come home to a full dirty dishwasher and would have to then run it and Empty it , which lead to me having to be running/ emptying multiple extra loads. I felt like I was actually doing her dishes. So we had to ask for her to empty the dishwasher moving forward even if it contained our dinner dishes etc

So you won’t do the nanny dishes, but you expect her to do yours? What an entitled employer.

+1.

I can't believe at Starbucks, the barista has to make my coffee but I don't make coffee for him. What an entitled customer I am...
The nanny is paid to do a job. It is up to parent + nanny to define what that job entails and set mutual expectations. Unloading dishes doesn't seem like a big stretch from child-related duties -- in my house 50-75% of those dishes are due to kids' food, and trying to split hairs on whether the nanny only unloads the specific dishes related to kids/herself seems like the kind of nitpickiness that would take you down a bad path relationship-wise.

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Anonymous wrote:I would lay out specifics at the start. And from our experience ask for daily unloading of the dishwasher. Doesn’t sound like an issue at first but I ran into the situation where our nanny was loading all her dishes she would use during the day for herself, the baby dishes, and bottles daily. I would come home to a full dirty dishwasher and would have to then run it and Empty it , which lead to me having to be running/ emptying multiple extra loads. I felt like I was actually doing her dishes. So we had to ask for her to empty the dishwasher moving forward even if it contained our dinner dishes etc

So you won’t do the nanny dishes, but you expect her to do yours? What an entitled employer.

+1.