Anonymous wrote:Maybe you gave her the impression that everywhere you wanted to drive was to hang out with your friends and not the child.

I just moved to the area and I have zero friends. I mentioned I like to take my son to the library story times and outdoor playground by the mall. Everything is within 1-2 miles. I really think it's a funds issue. I'm not going to ask about it again for a while. She mentioned that she's short on cash and couldn't get a Christmas tree this year.

Anonymous wrote:Kid is napping twice a day and it's below freezing outside, half of things are closed and it's a busy time of year. Stop yapping about your personal car seat in your car, you're looking selfish with ulterior motives.

Um I live in Miami and my charge never naps. The only person who looks weird is you. I hope you get thearpy soon. You're clearly not happy with yourself.

Kid is napping twice a day and it's below freezing outside, half of things are closed and it's a busy time of year. Stop yapping about your personal car seat in your car, you're looking selfish with ulterior motives.

Maybe you gave her the impression that everywhere you wanted to drive was to hang out with your friends and not the child.

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Anonymous wrote:How does she not have a car seat if the child is two years old, and she is not in walking distance to anything?

Op here: She does have a car seat but wants to buy another one so we don't have to switch back and forth everyday.

I would just have her switch back and forth every day until she gets a new one. Either it won't be a big deal, or she will get tired of it and get a second car seat.

Anonymous wrote:How does she not have a car seat if the child is two years old, and she is not in walking distance to anything?

Op here: She does have a car seat but wants to buy another one so we don't have to switch back and forth everyday.

How does she not have a car seat if the child is two years old, and she is not in walking distance to anything?

Anonymous wrote:You are there to take care of a child. If there is no need for you to drive the child, then your desire to get some air is basically irrelevant.

Are you always this nasty?

You are there to take care of a child. If there is no need for you to drive the child, then your desire to get some air is basically irrelevant.

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Anonymous wrote:Maybe she's tight on money right now and doesn't want to tell you that. I'd wait til after the first of the year and then bring it up again. Car seats are expensive.

More likely she hired OP as a temporary stop gap measure until the daycare/preschool of her choice has a slot that opens for her child and is simply waiting to fire OP.

Could be. Again: Op is naive.

or perhaps I'm not as dramatic as you.

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Anonymous wrote:Maybe she's tight on money right now and doesn't want to tell you that. I'd wait til after the first of the year and then bring it up again. Car seats are expensive.

More likely she hired OP as a temporary stop gap measure until the daycare/preschool of her choice has a slot that opens for her child and is simply waiting to fire OP.

Op here: I don't think so because I asked. She can't afford preschool and a nanny. I think she wants to build trust first. I will bring it up in a few weeks. I will probably quit over this issue. My husband makes plenty of money and this is kind of like a hobby job for me. I'm so happy he has a playmate now. It's been great.

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Anonymous wrote:Maybe she's tight on money right now and doesn't want to tell you that. I'd wait til after the first of the year and then bring it up again. Car seats are expensive.

More likely she hired OP as a temporary stop gap measure until the daycare/preschool of her choice has a slot that opens for her child and is simply waiting to fire OP.

Could be. Again: Op is naive.

Anonymous wrote:Maybe she's tight on money right now and doesn't want to tell you that. I'd wait til after the first of the year and then bring it up again. Car seats are expensive.

More likely she hired OP as a temporary stop gap measure until the daycare/preschool of her choice has a slot that opens for her child and is simply waiting to fire OP.

Anonymous wrote:Maybe she's tight on money right now and doesn't want to tell you that. I'd wait til after the first of the year and then bring it up again. Car seats are expensive.

You can get a $40-80 car seat. Not that expensive.

Maybe she's tight on money right now and doesn't want to tell you that. I'd wait til after the first of the year and then bring it up again. Car seats are expensive.