Anonymous wrote:To 14:20-
Are you for reals??!
Your logic on this is so very flawed that I truly wonder if you are making up nonsense to stir up another notorious DCUM debate.
A). Just because someone has maxed out their credit cards does not equate = thief.
It is not a red flag in any shape or form that said individual will steal from another.
Flawed logic = Unfair stereotype.
B). Nannies do not have access to family bank account info.
They do not pay family bills nor do they do any family accounting activity.
No offense to you, but you are just W-R-O-N-G on so many levels on this.

Anonymous wrote:You don't understand what I'm saying. If they have done a background check on you, signed out contract details, you've worked for them for a few weeks and it all looks good even then I would be as hesitant about providing them your personal financial history unless they have provided you with theirs.Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Professional nanny here for over twenty years-DO NOT GIVE OUT ANY FINANCIAL INFORMATION TO A STRANGER!. It is a scam to hack your information. If a good background check isn't enough for them, run. Like the hills.
And I agree with that and I also said in my posts that I would not offer such info unless there is an offer on the table. Yes you should not give info to a stranger
You don't understand what I'm saying. If they have done a background check on you, signed out contract details, you've worked for them for a few weeks and it all looks good even then I would be as hesitant about providing them your personal financial history unless they have provided you with theirs.Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Professional nanny here for over twenty years-DO NOT GIVE OUT ANY FINANCIAL INFORMATION TO A STRANGER!. It is a scam to hack your information. If a good background check isn't enough for them, run. Like the hills.
And I agree with that and I also said in my posts that I would not offer such info unless there is an offer on the table. Yes you should not give info to a stranger
Anonymous wrote:Professional nanny here for over twenty years-DO NOT GIVE OUT ANY FINANCIAL INFORMATION TO A STRANGER!. It is a scam to hack your information. If a good background check isn't enough for them, run. Like the hills.
Anonymous wrote:You just don't seem that bright, 14:20. Or perhaps you're just naive.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Bad advice from 9:47 and 10:19. Very bad.
No employer, and especially a potential employer has any right to your personal credit card statements. None.
+ 1000
I couldn't agree more w/you on this PP!
There is no valid reason why a prospective nanny should EVER have to submit her credit card info. Bar none.
It is common sense in this day & age of identity theft to be extra-weary of letting anyone have access to your personal information.
This is really a no brained.
Anonymous wrote:Bad advice from 9:47 and 10:19. Very bad.
No employer, and especially a potential employer has any right to your personal credit card statements. None.
Anonymous wrote:No it isn't common.
The DL maybe, but a credit card bill....??!
Sounds like they are planning on stealing your identity.
Don't even communicate with these scammers again.
Anonymous wrote:I'm an MB. When I was down to my final, top candidate I requested copies of drivers license and insurance cards.
I think the credit card piece is odd, and I wouldn't ask (or feel comfortable providing) detailed personal information unless I was a final candidate.
I think you could respond along the lines of "I will be more than happy to provide you with anything you need to run a background check if you think I might be a final candidate for you, but I'd prefer not to provide detailed personal information until after we've met."
If they push beyond that I'd take that as a reason to walk away. If they are ok with that response (as they should be) then you can have the first meeting and judge better whether you think they're just nervous and new to hiring a nanny or whether they are fishy in some way.