It's just unacceptable. I believe this is the last vacation she is taking with our family. The last vacation we took with her she dressed very decent but didn't want to do her job. I talked to her after we returned, was remorseful and all and I decided to give her a second chance.

She loves going on vacations because she earns X 2.5 more a week, and all expenses paid including meals of her choice. I can manage vacations without her or hire a local sitter if need be so it will be her loss not mine.

No short shorts at work. Completely inappropriate. She's at work, not hanging out (!) with friends.

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Anonymous wrote:A nanny shouldn't be wearing short shorts, period. One of my MBs once told me that while graciously giving a reference for a new agency, one of the questions the agency asked her was if I ever wore shorts to work. Since then, it's been pants every day for me. I think every professional should do the same.

Lol....

I want a nanny willing to play with my kids and be active, not dress like a prude.

Right on! Hey nanny-poo, come sit on the floor here and play so we can all see your pubes and twat up your nonexistent shorts. Or just stand there and twirl, we love butt cleavage!

Anonymous wrote:We traveled with nanny for a one week vacation. This morning she came wearing those tiny shorts that show the bottom of butt cheeks. First I feel embarrassed second, I am just uncomfortable with her dangling her naked self to my husband .

Sounds trampy. Yuck.

Anonymous wrote:Bwahahahhaha! Good thing you all have nannies. Our kids are older and we have AuPairs. I have a pool, it's like the playboy mansion over here! But hey, it keeps my old ass at the gym and has motivated me to find my abs again.

Does your husband have friends over to enjoy the scenery?

Bwahahahhaha! Good thing you all have nannies. Our kids are older and we have AuPairs. I have a pool, it's like the playboy mansion over here! But hey, it keeps my old ass at the gym and has motivated me to find my abs again.

I'm confused. Is she wearing these shorts on the working trip? If you're at the beach or something, deal. If you're back home, just say something.

But if your husband is like a bear with a steak that's a separate issue you should address as well.

Anonymous wrote:Doesn't sound like you have a mature professional in your nanny. You have an immature 20 year old with poor decision making skills and zero decorum. I didn't even dress like that as a teenager. Either you have respect for yourself and others or you don't. Clearly, most of the nannies responding here don't. Mid thigh shorts are easy to come by and look a lot better. I would mention it to her. Offer to buy a couple of pair. She's not just representing herself, she's representing your family and wherever you're from as well.

lmao

Anonymous wrote:Professional nannies should know how to dress appropriately. Your kid's big sis type of nanny might not know, so you need to train her in proper attire.

+1

Doesn't sound like you have a mature professional in your nanny. You have an immature 20 year old with poor decision making skills and zero decorum. I didn't even dress like that as a teenager. Either you have respect for yourself and others or you don't. Clearly, most of the nannies responding here don't. Mid thigh shorts are easy to come by and look a lot better. I would mention it to her. Offer to buy a couple of pair. She's not just representing herself, she's representing your family and wherever you're from as well.

Professional nannies should know how to dress appropriately. Your kid's big sis type of nanny might not know, so you need to train her in proper attire.

Anonymous wrote:We traveled with nanny for a one week vacation. This morning she came wearing those tiny shorts that show the bottom of butt cheeks. First I feel embarrassed second, I am just uncomfortable with her dangling her naked self to my husband .

A jealous middle age trump with a DH with a roving eye. This should be a wake-up call, OP, lose weight, get n in shape and out a bag over your head.

Anonymous wrote:I don't see how bringing your nanny on vacation previously correlates w/ what she wore today.

In any case, here is what I would do. I'd wait for a moment when it makes sense (she's picking something up off the floor, bending over to play w/ a kid, etc...) and say "Whoa - Jenny, I'm getting to know more of you than I need to w/ those shorts! Maybe those could be retired from workday duty?"

Hopefully that's all it will take.

Horrible advice. Next time just give her a damn uniform.

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Anonymous wrote:"No one needs to see that much of you. Please change and meet us here in 10 minutes."

"I'm an adult, don't tell me how to dress." (and probably "Find yourself a new nanny after vacation!").

That's win-win for the employer, because then you would not be dressed like a whore in their house, and they would not have to pay you unemployment.

DCUM at its finest.

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Anonymous wrote:"No one needs to see that much of you. Please change and meet us here in 10 minutes."

"I'm an adult, don't tell me how to dress." (and probably "Find yourself a new nanny after vacation!").

That's win-win for the employer, because then you would not be dressed like a whore in their house, and they would not have to pay you unemployment.