Anonymous
06/04/2016 22:05
Subject: Re:Taking a stand
Agree with immediate PP. Don't take the mess personally, OP. People have drastically different levels of tolerance for cleanliness. If you can't stand it, it may be time to move on.
Anonymous
06/04/2016 21:48
Subject: Taking a stand
I worked for family like this for years. Here's the thing, the mess doesn't bother them. It just bothers you. If you want to clean it during the course of your workday, do it but do it for you. Unless it's a specific duty of yours, you've done nothing to bother them because they don't care about the mess.
Anonymous
06/02/2016 11:57
Subject: Taking a stand
Anonymous wrote:[b]Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:For years I've been having job creep and doing the Monday morning/after holiday weekend pigsty clean up. Today I just left all the mess and it feels great!!! I am not the skivvy maid. My bosses won't say anything as its not my job to clean up their mess, but I'm sure they will notice. I'm just so over it, they do not respect me when they leave this kind of mess.
So you had Monday off or not?
Op here- Yes I had Monday off. What is the point here? They had tree days to clean the mess, even worse!
She thinks you deserve a punishment for having off on Memorial Day. What a b.
Anonymous
06/02/2016 10:57
Subject: Taking a stand
[b]Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:For years I've been having job creep and doing the Monday morning/after holiday weekend pigsty clean up. Today I just left all the mess and it feels great!!! I am not the skivvy maid. My bosses won't say anything as its not my job to clean up their mess, but I'm sure they will notice. I'm just so over it, they do not respect me when they leave this kind of mess.
So you had Monday off or not?
Op here- Yes I had Monday off. What is the point here? They had tree days to clean the mess, even worse!
Anonymous
06/02/2016 10:31
Subject: Taking a stand
Good for you. Of course, you shouldn't have been doing any of this, and allowing job creep, "for years".
That just means you failed to ever say no. So the blame is at least equally on you. Respect yourself enough to handle this appropriately and calmly when it starts - not years in.
That just means you failed to ever say no. So the blame is at least equally on you. Respect yourself enough to handle this appropriately and calmly when it starts - not years in.
Anonymous
06/02/2016 06:08
Subject: Taking a stand
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:For years I've been having job creep and doing the Monday morning/after holiday weekend pigsty clean up. Today I just left all the mess and it feels great!!! I am not the skivvy maid. My bosses won't say anything as its not my job to clean up their mess, but I'm sure they will notice. I'm just so over it, they do not respect me when they leave this kind of mess.
So you had Monday off or not?
Point? Stay on topic.
Anonymous
06/02/2016 02:10
Subject: Taking a stand
Anonymous wrote:For years I've been having job creep and doing the Monday morning/after holiday weekend pigsty clean up. Today I just left all the mess and it feels great!!! I am not the skivvy maid. My bosses won't say anything as its not my job to clean up their mess, but I'm sure they will notice. I'm just so over it, they do not respect me when they leave this kind of mess.
So you had Monday off or not?
Anonymous
06/02/2016 00:00
Subject: Taking a stand
I've done that too, OP. MB came in and asked what he mess was. I said that I didn't know, it wasn't mine. I don't mind some breakfast dishes and a little extra mess on Mondays, but don't be unreasonable! Good for you. Let us know how it went over.