Anonymous
02/10/2016 17:07
Subject: Do I buy a gift for a wedding I'll be accompanying NF to?
I would not bring a gift. If you are working, then the MB and DB can give some extra from the family to cover your meal.
Anonymous
02/10/2016 15:19
Subject: Do I buy a gift for a wedding I'll be accompanying NF to?
No gift!
Anonymous
02/09/2016 19:53
Subject: Do I buy a gift for a wedding I'll be accompanying NF to?
this thread is full of crazy responses. glad I scrolled down to read realistic answers.
1. I understand that they are all in the wedding, but my goodness family members can't help out with the younger charge since its a family event? weird
2. you and the sister have become friendly YET she did not invite you to the wedding. you are there as an employee.
3. do not buy a gift. why was this even a question. And if your mb and db found out that you did they are jerks if they let you gift it vs telling you to return it and get your $ back and they know that sis would appreciate the gesture.
4. are you allowed to bring a plus 1? didn't think so.
1. I understand that they are all in the wedding, but my goodness family members can't help out with the younger charge since its a family event? weird
2. you and the sister have become friendly YET she did not invite you to the wedding. you are there as an employee.
3. do not buy a gift. why was this even a question. And if your mb and db found out that you did they are jerks if they let you gift it vs telling you to return it and get your $ back and they know that sis would appreciate the gesture.
4. are you allowed to bring a plus 1? didn't think so.
Anonymous
02/08/2016 11:04
Subject: Do I buy a gift for a wedding I'll be accompanying NF to?
My feeling is that the couple would not be expecting anything from you, but particularly given that you are fond of them, they would be touched if you did get some token gift. I think even $30 is more than you need to spend, though.
Anonymous
02/08/2016 08:51
Subject: Do I buy a gift for a wedding I'll be accompanying NF to?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Good lord NO. You are going to take care of kids a not as a guest. It is immaterial that you have dinner there. Believe me, they think of you as the help, nothing more.
You are an a**hole.
Why are they an asshole? We all tend to overestimate our importance. No one will even really notice she's there, and they certainly won't notice if she gives a gift or not. She's there to work.
"You are the help. Nothing more." A**hole.
Anonymous
02/08/2016 07:26
Subject: Do I buy a gift for a wedding I'll be accompanying NF to?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Good lord NO. You are going to take care of kids a not as a guest. It is immaterial that you have dinner there. Believe me, they think of you as the help, nothing more.
You are an a**hole.
Why are they an asshole? We all tend to overestimate our importance. No one will even really notice she's there, and they certainly won't notice if she gives a gift or not. She's there to work.
Anonymous
02/08/2016 07:13
Subject: Do I buy a gift for a wedding I'll be accompanying NF to?
Anonymous wrote:Good lord NO. You are going to take care of kids a not as a guest. It is immaterial that you have dinner there. Believe me, they think of you as the help, nothing more.
You are an a**hole.