Anonymous
Post 07/29/2015 15:32     Subject: Three weekends in a row?

My fam has a weekend sitter, they respect my time away and have never asked!
Anonymous
Post 07/27/2015 13:48     Subject: Three weekends in a row?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:My nanny wants all the overtime she can get. I have other sitters, but I usually ask her first. If she can't or doesn't want to, she says no.

Tell your MB you're not interested, and she'll stop asking. No one knows whether you want more time off or more money unless you say something.


Obviously, if she needs this much OT, you are underpaying her.


Not necessarily. Maybe she's saving for a big expense. Maybe she's had some unexpected things come up. I earn a great salary but can't afford the trip to London and Paris I want to take - that's not a good reason for my employers to pay me more money.