Anonymous
04/30/2015 10:06
Subject: Re:Question about nanny workload. Should she be able to handle this?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I have three kids of similar ages and they are all far, far better behaved with their nanny when I am NOT around. I am the fly in this particular "ointment". Get out of the way, OP, and let your nanny do her job.
+1 Remove yourself, OP. You are the one causing the problem. Any good nanny can handle three kids. No good nanny can handle even one kid if the mother is meddling and not letting the nanny establish authority.
+2 You are the most apparent problem, OP. You will never know how (or even if) your nanny can handle your kids until you completely get out of her way.
Anonymous
04/30/2015 09:45
Subject: Re:Question about nanny workload. Should she be able to handle this?
Anonymous wrote:I have three kids of similar ages and they are all far, far better behaved with their nanny when I am NOT around. I am the fly in this particular "ointment". Get out of the way, OP, and let your nanny do her job.
+1 Remove yourself, OP. You are the one causing the problem. Any good nanny can handle three kids. No good nanny can handle even one kid if the mother is meddling and not letting the nanny establish authority.
Anonymous
04/30/2015 09:43
Subject: Question about nanny workload. Should she be able to handle this?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Should a nanny be able to handle 4 year old, a 2 year old, and a 4 month old on her own? It has been 2 weeks and I find myself having to jump into situations or take care of the baby a large majority of the time (I am SAHM). Is it too much for one person or is she not the right person?
Why can't you do it? I know lots of parents with 3 kids dying to unload their burden on someone else. It's a HUGE job! Of course an extra pair of hands will always be useful. Stop complaining and be grateful you can afford to have help.
Excellent point made here. Practice a bit more empathy plz.
If OP hired someone to watch the kids then that person should be doing the job for which she was hired. Empathy is just silliness. Can the nanny do the job? Is OP getting in the way of the nanny doing the job or is she seeing incompetence?
Those are the issues.
Good example of ignorance. You're the same one on the other thread saying nanny should buck-up and be an "adult" and pretend her mother didn't just die, right? You really need a good therapist to help you deal with your problems. Otherwise your children will be prone to the same difficulties in life. Good luck to you. I hope you get some help.
What are you babbling about?
Anonymous
04/30/2015 09:32
Subject: Question about nanny workload. Should she be able to handle this?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Should a nanny be able to handle 4 year old, a 2 year old, and a 4 month old on her own? It has been 2 weeks and I find myself having to jump into situations or take care of the baby a large majority of the time (I am SAHM). Is it too much for one person or is she not the right person?
Why can't you do it? I know lots of parents with 3 kids dying to unload their burden on someone else. It's a HUGE job! Of course an extra pair of hands will always be useful. Stop complaining and be grateful you can afford to have help.
Excellent point made here. Practice a bit more empathy plz.
If OP hired someone to watch the kids then that person should be doing the job for which she was hired. Empathy is just silliness. Can the nanny do the job? Is OP getting in the way of the nanny doing the job or is she seeing incompetence?
Those are the issues.
Good example of ignorance. You're the same one on the other thread saying nanny should buck-up and be an "adult" and pretend her mother didn't just die, right? You really need a good therapist to help you deal with your problems. Otherwise your children will be prone to the same difficulties in life. Good luck to you. I hope you get some help.