nannydebsays
02/11/2015 15:38
Subject: NF "joking" about me being their surrogate
Anonymous wrote:nannydebsays wrote:Surrogates must have already had a child/children. That means you cannot qualify unless you are already a mom.
I would say something like, "I understand how much you want a third child, and I hope your wish does come true.
However, I am not qualified to be a surrogate at this time, and I have no interest in continuing to discuss the prospect of me carrying your 3rd child.
Hearing you both talk about it makes me feel very uncomfortable, and I want any discussion about me and surrogacy stopped now."
Be frank, but not brutal.
fired
Sued for harassment and hostile working conditions.
"I was fired when I asked them to stop talking about borrowing my uterus to have a child. I am not for rent."
Anonymous
02/11/2015 13:44
Subject: NF "joking" about me being their surrogate
Anonymous wrote:Why not do it? Why so stuck up?
Clown questions, bro.
Anonymous
02/11/2015 13:29
Subject: NF "joking" about me being their surrogate
My step would go with 22:37 said it's a gentle but direct approach just in case they mean no harm. They should get the message.
If not go with what nannydeb said it's firmer.
If they don't stop then resign and go after them for harassment.
If not go with what nannydeb said it's firmer.
If they don't stop then resign and go after them for harassment.
Anonymous
02/11/2015 13:27
Subject: NF "joking" about me being their surrogate
Some posters have it out for nannydeb it's a Mean Girls type clique for some of the posters here quite sad.
Anonymous
02/11/2015 12:27
Subject: NF "joking" about me being their surrogate
nannydebsays wrote:Surrogates must have already had a child/children. That means you cannot qualify unless you are already a mom.
I would say something like, "I understand how much you want a third child, and I hope your wish does come true.
However, I am not qualified to be a surrogate at this time, and I have no interest in continuing to discuss the prospect of me carrying your 3rd child.
Hearing you both talk about it makes me feel very uncomfortable, and I want any discussion about me and surrogacy stopped now."
Be frank, but not brutal.
fired
Anonymous
02/10/2015 23:51
Subject: NF "joking" about me being their surrogate
Next time they bring it up just say "oh hell no" and drop it. They're feeling you out, and end it without being bitchy. I really disagree with nanny deb this time.