Anonymous
Post 02/08/2015 18:06     Subject: Do you let your nanny wear your baby?

Anonymous wrote:I do. We used to live in a walk-up without an elevator. We now live in a SFH but there are stairs on both exits. Getting a stroller in & out of our place has never been particularly practical. I always show a new caregiver our stroller & carrier options and let her know which one I find easier but I leave it up to her what to use during the day.

I just ask that she not have hot beverages while wearing the baby or pushing the stroller - risk of burns, etc. We stock coffee in our kitchen and she's free to make herself a cup during nap time, or she can have an iced coffee or iced chai at any time during the day.



You should have hired a nanny with a triple digit IQ. Such warning would not be necessary.
Anonymous
Post 02/08/2015 17:54     Subject: Do you let your nanny wear your baby?

I had a charge (twins at the time) who would not sleep for about a week unless he was being held. A carrier was the only thing that enabled me to do my job!

It's often not about intimacy and more about practicality. Mothers who have spent any significant amount of time with their new babies would know this.
Anonymous
Post 02/08/2015 15:53     Subject: Do you let your nanny wear your baby?

I not an MB but Im a nanny who works with infants. I've worked on third story walk-ups and single-story homes. I've never had a family have a problem with me wearing the baby. I generally wear the baby the first few months but transition to a stroller once the baby is 5 or 6 months and easier to use a stroller.
Anonymous
Post 02/08/2015 15:31     Subject: Do you let your nanny wear your baby?

I do. We used to live in a walk-up without an elevator. We now live in a SFH but there are stairs on both exits. Getting a stroller in & out of our place has never been particularly practical. I always show a new caregiver our stroller & carrier options and let her know which one I find easier but I leave it up to her what to use during the day.

I just ask that she not have hot beverages while wearing the baby or pushing the stroller - risk of burns, etc. We stock coffee in our kitchen and she's free to make herself a cup during nap time, or she can have an iced coffee or iced chai at any time during the day.
Anonymous
Post 02/08/2015 15:18     Subject: Do you let your nanny wear your baby?

depends on the carrier. some are more intimate than others.
Anonymous
Post 02/06/2015 12:43     Subject: Do you let your nanny wear your baby?

Just ask here.
I wouldn't have an issue with a nanny wanting to use the carrier to get through the day.
I might raise an eyebrow at a nanny that wanted to "wear" my baby.

Wearing comes with a connotation I wouldn't be comfortable with.