Anonymous
Post 01/31/2015 13:01     Subject: Am I being over sensitive?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Wow, the trolls are out in force today.

No Dr says " because of the dead guy". None.

Your over the top insults out you as a troll. Let me guess, your MB also asks you about your sex life.


I agree with this. Troll alert.



This could be a troll, but not because of the " dead guy" statement. I have worked for many doctors over my years as a nanny, and you would be surprised at the things they say. Unfortunately, a doctor saying "because of the dead guy" would not shock me one iota.
Anonymous
Post 01/31/2015 11:34     Subject: Am I being over sensitive?
Anonymous wrote:I find it pretty rude you turned them down for babysitting so many times in a row. It's pretty hard to find a sitter.


OP, ignore this "person" if I should even be so kind as to label it as such. This comment is totally uncalled for and is just plain mean.

Enough already.

I am sorry for your loss and I extend my deepest condolences to you and your family members.

Your boss is very selfish and has little to no empathy. Whether or not he is an M.D., he is still a human being and his comment is just tacky to the extreme.

You are not being too sensitive. I would have felt the same way.

Shame on them.
Anonymous
Post 01/30/2015 16:37     Subject: Am I being over sensitive?
Anonymous wrote:Wow, the trolls are out in force today.

No Dr says " because of the dead guy". None.

Your over the top insults out you as a troll. Let me guess, your MB also asks you about your sex life.


I agree with this. Troll alert.
Anonymous
Post 01/30/2015 14:18     Subject: Am I being over sensitive?
Wow, the trolls are out in force today.

No Dr says " because of the dead guy". None.

Your over the top insults out you as a troll. Let me guess, your MB also asks you about your sex life.
Anonymous
Post 01/30/2015 14:12     Subject: Am I being over sensitive?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:On what planet is "oh because of the dead guy?" a justifiable response.


Y'all need help.

I weep for society,if this is considered ok behavior.

Social media and the like really has killed our personal skills.


I can see how it would be offensive if the person who passed away was female


Now I know you are a troll. Bye.
Anonymous
Post 01/30/2015 13:09     Subject: Am I being over sensitive?
Anonymous wrote:On what planet is "oh because of the dead guy?" a justifiable response.


Y'all need help.

I weep for society,if this is considered ok behavior.

Social media and the like really has killed our personal skills.


I can see how it would be offensive if the person who passed away was female
Anonymous
Post 01/30/2015 13:04     Subject: Am I being over sensitive?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:He probably thinks it's odd that you weren't upset enough to take a day off for the funeral yet are too upset to work a Saturday. Weird, and I say this as someone who has lost all grandparents, a sibling, a parent and long time step parent. Just tell him your family is planning one last get together to remember grandpa or whatever.

That said, why can kids in their early teens stay home alone? That is what's really baffling.


OP here- I was extremely upset and distraught, however both MB and DB have strict job schedules and I have never called out because they don't have back up child care. Plus I am only there for less than two hours a day and I just had to suck it up for those two hours so MB and DB didn't have to leave work early. I am also Catholic, and there was a 9 day prayer planned that started that Saturday. I wouldn't be able to make it to most of the prayer days because of my nanny job, so I at least wanted to make it to the first one.


I'm catholic. How come I've never heard of 9 day prayer where everyone takes off of work for 9 solid days? Or do you just stop by in the early AM or afterwork?
Even sitting shiva is not that disruptive!


It is a novenario in Spanish, and it is always at 6:30 when usually everyone is off work. No one takes 9 days off, whoever makes it on time goes and whoever can't doesn't. I wouldn't be able to make it any other days because of my nanny job, so I wanted to go on that first Saturday.
Anonymous
Post 01/30/2015 12:43     Subject: Am I being over sensitive?
On what planet is "oh because of the dead guy?" a justifiable response.


Y'all need help.

I weep for society,if this is considered ok behavior.

Social media and the like really has killed our personal skills.
Anonymous
Post 01/30/2015 11:52     Subject: Am I being over sensitive?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:He probably thinks it's odd that you weren't upset enough to take a day off for the funeral yet are too upset to work a Saturday. Weird, and I say this as someone who has lost all grandparents, a sibling, a parent and long time step parent. Just tell him your family is planning one last get together to remember grandpa or whatever.

That said, why can kids in their early teens stay home alone? That is what's really baffling.


OP here- I was extremely upset and distraught, however both MB and DB have strict job schedules and I have never called out because they don't have back up child care. Plus I am only there for less than two hours a day and I just had to suck it up for those two hours so MB and DB didn't have to leave work early. I am also Catholic, and there was a 9 day prayer planned that started that Saturday. I wouldn't be able to make it to most of the prayer days because of my nanny job, so I at least wanted to make it to the first one.


I'm catholic. How come I've never heard of 9 day prayer where everyone takes off of work for 9 solid days? Or do you just stop by in the early AM or afterwork?
Even sitting shiva is not that disruptive!