Anonymous wrote:A great nanny with the qualifications that you are looking for is already employed. What you need to do is offer her a package that will make her leave her current position. I would start at $20 an hour.

Anonymous wrote:I'm sure most parent's say this but we are a laid-back couple looking for a nanny for our first child, who will be 12 weeks when the position starts.

The hours are Monday through Thursday from 8AM - 4:30PM. We plan to pay for 40 hours week even though there will only be 34 hours worked.
We expect undivided care for our child. We want him to out for a daily walk, read to, interacted with, and treated with love. The only other duties besides the care of our child would be housekeeping pertaining to him i.e his laundry, wash bottles, keep the nursery stocked, change bedding once a week, notify if supplies are low, keep common areas tidy, clean up after herself, and log all aspects of the day into an app.

We would prefer a nanny with at least 5 years with infants, educated, English speaker, physically able to care for a young child, has certifications ( or willingness to get) and vaccinated ( or willingness to get).

With reading what we want and expect, what would you expect as a rate and benefits?

Anonymous wrote:I'm sure most parent's say this but we are a laid-back couple looking for a nanny for our first child, who will be 12 weeks when the position starts.

The hours are Monday through Thursday from 8AM - 4:30PM. We plan to pay for 40 hours week even though there will only be 34 hours worked.
We expect undivided care for our child. We want him to out for a daily walk, read to, interacted with, and treated with love. The only other duties besides the care of our child would be housekeeping pertaining to him i.e his laundry, wash bottles, keep the nursery stocked, change bedding once a week, notify if supplies are low, keep common areas tidy, clean up after herself, and log all aspects of the day into an app.

We would prefer a nanny with at least 5 years with infants, educated, English speaker, physically able to care for a young child, has certifications ( or willingness to get) and vaccinated ( or willingness to get).

With reading what we want and expect, what would you expect as a rate and benefits?

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Anonymous wrote:Guarantee pay for 40 hours No less than $15 to $16 per hour if paying hours. (yes, we guarantee 40 hours)

Standard is Federal holidays off and paid. (we do the 5 national holidays as we don't get off the other federal holidays)

Two weeks paid vacation. (one of our choosing, one of her choosing 45 day advanced notice)

5 paid sick/ personal days (we didn't bother stipulating this, if she is sick she needs to call us immediately, stay home and we have to pay for back up care and her sick day)

If you want to sweeten the deal offer some sort of health insurakince contribution.

We do this. $15/hour the first year, then $16 the second year.
Also, she drives her own car (once child was 7 or 8 mos old and could do more activities).
Live in Bethesda.

You should deduct taxes for your nanny, for her sake. It is a tiny bit of work for you upfront and then easier for everyone.

Given what you're looking for, I'd expect to pay $18-$20/hr to get it. Sure, you might luck out with a great, young nanny but you're looking for 5+ years of infant experience and that's a nanny who should know her worth. Anyone with five years experience who isn't charging $18-$20 is, one way or another, just not as good as you want.


I already wrote that we will be paying taxes. My husband and I are thinking of $20/hr starting rate ( we will pay $23-24 so nanny gets desired rate), 2 weeks paid vacation, 3 sick days, 2 personal days, and health insurance. We will provide lunch and snacks and petty cash for outings. We are looking to employ a nanny for years so raises and bonuses will be given.

Anonymous wrote:Guarantee pay for 40 hours No less than $15 to $16 per hour if paying hours. (yes, we guarantee 40 hours)

Standard is Federal holidays off and paid. (we do the 5 national holidays as we don't get off the other federal holidays)

Two weeks paid vacation. (one of our choosing, one of her choosing 45 day advanced notice)

5 paid sick/ personal days (we didn't bother stipulating this, if she is sick she needs to call us immediately, stay home and we have to pay for back up care and her sick day)

If you want to sweeten the deal offer some sort of health insurance contribution.

Anonymous wrote:You don't say where you are located OP (unless I missed it) and that's important in terms of rate.

I think your plan is putting you on the VERY high end rate-wise for one baby. So you will be able to command whatever you want at that level.

However, I also think it's unnecessary and I agree with your husband. You will have equally wonderful candidates at the $18/hr level and that leaves you far more room for growth over the years.

Rate alone does not equal excellence - though it certainly can buy you the ability to be extremely picky, and even to be a more difficult employer.

But with what you're describing I think you plan to seriously overpay and I don't really understand why you would start there. What if you have other kids? What if your schedule changes and you need more than 40 hours a week (so your overtime rate is $30+/hr.) What if you have another child and want to keep the same nanny but she then expects a significant increase over already high wages.

Think long-term.

We live in the Kalomara Heights area.

Overpay if you want - but if you do, demand absolute excellence.

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Anonymous wrote:You should deduct taxes for your nanny, for her sake. It is a tiny bit of work for you upfront and then easier for everyone.

Given what you're looking for, I'd expect to pay $18-$20/hr to get it. Sure, you might luck out with a great, young nanny but you're looking for 5+ years of infant experience and that's a nanny who should know her worth. Anyone with five years experience who isn't charging $18-$20 is, one way or another, just not as good as you want.

I already wrote that we will be paying taxes. My husband and I are thinking of $20/hr starting rate ( we will pay $23-24 so nanny gets desired rate), 2 weeks paid vacation, 3 sick days, 2 personal days, and health insurance. We will provide lunch and snacks and petty cash for outings. We are looking to employ a nanny for years so raises and bonuses will be given.

You're planning on overpaying significantly. Almost all posters in the nanny section on this site are nannies who are trying to inflate salaries. What you're looking for is not abnormal at all and is what is expected from a nanny - nothing you posted is out of the ordinary. If you can afford this rate, pay it, but be aware that you're thinking of offering way over market.

I don't want to sound like I'm being snotty but money isn't much of an issue. We both having well paid jobs and quite a bit saved. We could easily pay a nanny out of one of ours savings accounts for years without issue. We also don't want to pay a crazy amount just because we have the money. DH thinks $18/hr is more than enough to start, especially since $18 will be the gross wage and we are are paying for 6 extra hours a weeks that she won't be working. Is that too low?

$18 is fine as long as you are OK with an immigrant with questionable status and no driver's license. If you have the money you claim then you should be able to afford an American girl with training and certifications and high school level French to teach your baby a second language. Expect to pay $26+ an hour before taxes. But not everyone can afford that, so do what you can.

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Anonymous wrote:You should deduct taxes for your nanny, for her sake. It is a tiny bit of work for you upfront and then easier for everyone.

Given what you're looking for, I'd expect to pay $18-$20/hr to get it. Sure, you might luck out with a great, young nanny but you're looking for 5+ years of infant experience and that's a nanny who should know her worth. Anyone with five years experience who isn't charging $18-$20 is, one way or another, just not as good as you want.

I already wrote that we will be paying taxes. My husband and I are thinking of $20/hr starting rate ( we will pay $23-24 so nanny gets desired rate), 2 weeks paid vacation, 3 sick days, 2 personal days, and health insurance. We will provide lunch and snacks and petty cash for outings. We are looking to employ a nanny for years so raises and bonuses will be given.

You're planning on overpaying significantly. Almost all posters in the nanny section on this site are nannies who are trying to inflate salaries. What you're looking for is not abnormal at all and is what is expected from a nanny - nothing you posted is out of the ordinary. If you can afford this rate, pay it, but be aware that you're thinking of offering way over market.

I don't want to sound like I'm being snotty but money isn't much of an issue. We both having well paid jobs and quite a bit saved. We could easily pay a nanny out of one of ours savings accounts for years without issue. We also don't want to pay a crazy amount just because we have the money. DH thinks $18/hr is more than enough to start, especially since $18 will be the gross wage and we are are paying for 6 extra hours a weeks that she won't be working. Is that too low?