Anonymous wrote:Please stop resurrecting dead threads to post unintelligible garbage.

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Please stop resurrecting dead threads to post unintelligible garbage.

there are many beautiful nannies out there, prettier than teir bosses, if a usband is going to like a nanny divorce him because he can like is nanny, secretary or any woman, so look for a new husband not a new nanny, I have seen nannies that look very good, dress well, talk well, educated they dont want your husband they need a job they already are taken most probably!!!

Anonymous wrote:What difference does it make? If a dad
is going to approach a nanny on that manner
it doesn't matter, didn't Arnold have the affair
with his kids ugly nanny

She was a live-in housekeeper. He had an affair with her because he's a pig and she was available when he wanted it.

Anonymous wrote:I wouldn't. While I trust my husband, why bring temptation into the house?

Because obviously you don't trust him.

Been happily married for 20 years. Both DB and I agree that attractive people are not "temptation". We love each other and only want each other. And we actually trust one another.

I wouldn't. While I trust my husband, why bring temptation into the house?

I would. If you can't trust your husband around the nanny why did you marry him? Say you don't have a very attractive nanny, what's to say he doesn't have a hot coworker or won't meet someone attractive at the gym. If you don't hire a nanny simply because she is attractive and don't trust your husband around her then you really have much bigger problems.

Honestly probably not. In part, because I just don't buy the hypothetical. I've worked with/ met/ know many many nannies and wouldnt say any of them are "hot.". Think there is a snowballs chance in hell that someone young enough to be hot would "beat out" the experience of a older nanny. So it would seem like I'd take on the small bit of insecurity that a hot nanny entails with no upside...

Our nanny is attractive.

I had some issues hiring her at first, and DB told me I was being insecure.

Then he found out she was gay, now it's the other way around.

Both of my nannies have been pretty. My DH is never home, so he never sees them.

sure - I'd consider it a little bonus for all of us.

Anonymous wrote:I would have no trouble hiring a hot Nanny. I'm not so insecure. And if my husband had so little self control to cheat with the Nanny, then I wouldn't want him. He could be cheating with any smoking hot woman, or any woman for that matter. Probably you're safer with the smoking hot Nanny who doesn't want him.

What makes you think a 19 year old nanny would want old 40 year old man wrinkle nuts.

I'm a very attractive nanny but I look as unattractive as possible at work. No makeup, long shorts or pants, nothing low cut or tight, etc. never had any issues.