Anonymous
07/23/2014 18:10
Subject: Nanny in abusive relationship?
I would tread lightly here because this is a very sensitive issue OP.
You can indirectly let her know that if she feels she needs someone to talk to and/or any resources for assistance, she can always come to you or your husband for help.
Other than that, there really is not much you or your husband can do at this point.
Just try not to have anything else to do w/her boyfriend in the future and most especially, do not let him into your home at all.
You can indirectly let her know that if she feels she needs someone to talk to and/or any resources for assistance, she can always come to you or your husband for help.
Other than that, there really is not much you or your husband can do at this point.
Just try not to have anything else to do w/her boyfriend in the future and most especially, do not let him into your home at all.
nannydebsays
07/21/2014 14:21
Subject: Nanny in abusive relationship?
For those saying MYOB, that's all well and good unless the nanny is in an abusive relationship and that abuse bleeds over into her employer's home.
Op, follow the advice above, speak with her calmly and ask what's going on. If she denies any issues are occurring, then back off. If she says there is a problem, offer as much help as you are comfortable offering.
Op, follow the advice above, speak with her calmly and ask what's going on. If she denies any issues are occurring, then back off. If she says there is a problem, offer as much help as you are comfortable offering.