Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I don't think some of you know how CPS really works. It does not operate with the ideal setting of "someone calls CPS because nanny smacked charge so hard she fell over and broke her arm. There is only 1 witness to this (the one who called CPS). Nanny and child both lie about what happened. Cops believe the one witness, arrest nanny, and she's easily tried and convicted". Rather it is more like. enough claims against a person or severe harm to a child will warrant something more thorough than a simple investigation. I've lost count of how many children repeatedly show up in the ER with suspicion injuries and even classical abuse injuries. And every single time I report it. The only time a parent has ever been arrested after one report was when the child was brought to the ER in such a bad state that it was clear the father had abused and neglected the child over a long period of time.
your post is heartbreaking and difficult to read. basically, a child must be abused a lot and for a long time before law enforcement intervene. I read a while ago of a little child, I think in Maryland, who died of abuse. the article said that the child had ended up as an infant in the ER already with injuries, but nothing was done. unfortunatelly, the last time the child was abused was fatal, and now the dad is in prison. I could not believe that nothing could be done BEFORE the child was dead. I undertand these cases are difficult (children fall all the time and a broken arm does not necessarily means that the child was abused), but still.
First quoted PP again. Ill share one story that is not terrible and could very well be similar to what happened in this situation. Parent was with their 4 year old at the playground. From reports of what happened, there appeared to be 1 other adult at the playground with their own small children. Parent went to get something from the car which was parked just barely out of eyesight from the playground. Parent figured it wouldn't take more than a minute or two to run to the car, grab what was needed, and run back. Park was in an enclosed fence, so parent was not worried about child escaping. Well in the time parent was not watching the child, the child climbed up the back part of a tube slide, went to try to get over the railing (like where you put your hands to propel yourself down) and fell off. Landed on his back, knocked out cold, some pieces of the wood chips they used on the playground sticking into his skin, broken collar bone and broken ankle. One time lapse of judgment from the parent. I am 99.99% sure the doctor reported it to CPS because the mom had left her 4 year old unattended in the park when the injury occurred.
My SIL is fairly certain that CPS opened a file on her after she brought her 9 year old son into the ER with a 2nd degree sunburn (blistering and some oozing). He'd been at a friend's house the day before, took off his shirt because he was hot, but didn't put lotion on. Got a pretty bad burn but skin was just red and sensitive. Woke up the next day and entire back was blistered. Negligent on my SIL's part? No, since she wasn't even there. But since the ER has no way to prove that, she's fairly certain his injuries were reported to CPS.