Anonymous wrote:No, by law they don't issue a w-2 or 1099 if the amount paid is below the legal threshold. The sitter, in that case, is solely responsible for declaring and paying the taxes.
OP here, and although I'm sure this won't satisfy you I do actually declare about 80% of my independent income on my taxes. My best friend is a lawyer and ESPECIALLY concerned with tax fraud so I try to do my part. When churches and corporations and oil companies start paying their fair share you might be able to convince me to declare 100%.
But though my question was really just "why do they need this" (I believe the answer was a tax credit of some kind) - I have my answer. And frankly, as another PP said, if everyone I babysat for wanted my SS# I'd stop babysitting. I've been the victim of identity fraud TWICE (side note: IRS handled it beautifully and I was really lucky it was proven so quickly and didn't collapse my finances in the meantime) and I am just not comfortable giving it out unnecessarily. I didn't even give it to the DMV and they like to pretend you have to!
So at this point I'm only trying to decide if I should respond and say I'm just not comfortable sharing such personal data or if I should just not respond (I'm the nanny who recently had major surgery - I posted some gratitude that my employers are paying me fully during the 8 week recovery period - and this family knows that and gave me a little out by saying if this was a bad time to just ignore their request...tempting).