Thank you all.

I will probably get a flowy sun dress thing that's long.
I hate dresses due to my shape (I say its an hourglass but a 360 hour glass).
I won't be having interviews anytime soon, so pants will be a waste of money. Plus its 80-85 here, way to hot for slacks and a blouse while handling a baby.

Thank you to the other poster about the other children. We have talked about that and there are no other children going to the wedding.