Op here. Thanks all for the comments. And i totally agree with the pp who said a nanny could be equally scared of the mbs on here. Anyways, i will try to remind myseld that this IS an annonymous forum, so of course it is going to be more drama filled. Anyways, thanks all andbin a couple of months i may be posting again looking for input on what i plan to offer a nanny! Also sorry for typos. Using an old phone with a tiny screen and horrid kwyboard

It's been a real eye opener for me, getting to know what nannies are really thinking. Some of them have insanely entitled attitudes, resent their employers and jobs and don't really seem to like kids all that much.

It doesn't scare me, it just makes me more aware. There are some fantastic nannies out there, I'm just more weary of the bad ones and know what to look out for. Nanny cams are very important -- you'll want to know how she's interacting with the baby when she thinks you're not around. Pay attention to facial expressions and body language. As an example, she may agree to a duty in the interview to land the job, but later resent you for it.