Anonymous wrote:
If you have your heart set on a certain person, for whatever reason, and you can afford her fees, than it's a clear win-win.
The only person mad here is the parent who can't afford the higher rates for the better nanny. That's why she pours so much effort into her mythical low market rates, based on absolutely nothing.
Why do you think there is only one person here who understands market rates? There are many of us, both nannies and parents. Your paranoia about a mythical enemy driving down your desired wages is really kind of weird.