Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Have you never complained about your job/boss? Complaining is the American pastime. If what you read here has affected your relationship, a mature adult conversation about it would be the more professional route. You can fire her if you like, but complaining about your job is not cause. I also assure you that your next nanny will not think you're perfect either. Are you willing to try to solve the issues and admit that maybe you aren't perfect? The fact that addressing her issues wasn't your first action says a lot about the kind of person you are, and she will be well rid of you if you let her go.
You nannies are disgusting! I would never hire any of you. So it's ok for nanny to hold in feelings, pretend she's great and smile to her employers and then talk badly about them and make them out to be horrible people instead of going to her MB/DH with her issues. Who'se the adult here?? None of you low grade childcare givers act professional. You complain 24.7 but don't go to your employers with your concerns and then whoopsy, nanny gets caught but she's the victim? Hahah.
Anonymous wrote:Have you never complained about your job/boss? Complaining is the American pastime. If what you read here has affected your relationship, a mature adult conversation about it would be the more professional route. You can fire her if you like, but complaining about your job is not cause. I also assure you that your next nanny will not think you're perfect either. Are you willing to try to solve the issues and admit that maybe you aren't perfect? The fact that addressing her issues wasn't your first action says a lot about the kind of person you are, and she will be well rid of you if you let her go.
Anonymous wrote:You're going to fire her because .... of nothing? You *think* she posted on an anonymous forum but don't know that. So you're prepared to fire someone.
That's really shitty. And you want to fire her because ... she's not happy? Guess what? Sometimes EVERYONE is not happy with their job, but for the most part, we're happy to have a job, and we go in each day with a smile on our faces and a pleasant attitude. We do the best we can and then go home and vent in a safe place.
There's no job requirement that says you have to be happy and love your job.