Anonymous
Post 07/17/2013 01:18     Subject: Fairly confident my nanny has posted here recently

OP is a troll, never came back
Anonymous
Post 07/17/2013 00:04     Subject: Fairly confident my nanny has posted here recently

Which post is it? We are nosy...
Anonymous
Post 07/16/2013 23:57     Subject: Fairly confident my nanny has posted here recently

OP have you ever considered that her exaggeration was simply her trying to change certain details to conceal her identity? No of course, you didn't consider that... Because you are a moron.

I hope your next nanny is unreliable and steals your silver. People are allowed to vent on an anonymous NANNY board.
Anonymous
Post 07/16/2013 22:16     Subject: Fairly confident my nanny has posted here recently

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Have you never complained about your job/boss? Complaining is the American pastime. If what you read here has affected your relationship, a mature adult conversation about it would be the more professional route. You can fire her if you like, but complaining about your job is not cause. I also assure you that your next nanny will not think you're perfect either. Are you willing to try to solve the issues and admit that maybe you aren't perfect? The fact that addressing her issues wasn't your first action says a lot about the kind of person you are, and she will be well rid of you if you let her go.


You nannies are disgusting! I would never hire any of you. So it's ok for nanny to hold in feelings, pretend she's great and smile to her employers and then talk badly about them and make them out to be horrible people instead of going to her MB/DH with her issues. Who'se the adult here?? None of you low grade childcare givers act professional. You complain 24.7 but don't go to your employers with your concerns and then whoopsy, nanny gets caught but she's the victim? Hahah.


It's nice of you to generalize all nannies being disgusting. The OP doesn't even know if it was her nanny. Who is really being childish now? I don't complain about my job. I love my charges and my bosses and I'm extremely happy with my position. I believe in communication and if I ever had an issue with my job I would discuss with my bosses and come up with a solution to whatever the problem may be. Low grade child givers? Wow. I wonder how happy your nanny is. She's probably blasting you on other forums for being an uptight and ungrateful bitch.

Anonymous
Post 07/16/2013 21:58     Subject: Fairly confident my nanny has posted here recently

Op isn't even sure it's her nanny pp. even if it is, she didn't call them out ("Baxter family sucks for these reasons...")

Op, ask if she frequents this site. Casually ask later if she is unhappy about anything.

Would you link the thread she allegedly posted?
Anonymous
Post 07/16/2013 21:40     Subject: Fairly confident my nanny has posted here recently

Anonymous wrote:Have you never complained about your job/boss? Complaining is the American pastime. If what you read here has affected your relationship, a mature adult conversation about it would be the more professional route. You can fire her if you like, but complaining about your job is not cause. I also assure you that your next nanny will not think you're perfect either. Are you willing to try to solve the issues and admit that maybe you aren't perfect? The fact that addressing her issues wasn't your first action says a lot about the kind of person you are, and she will be well rid of you if you let her go.


You nannies are disgusting! I would never hire any of you. So it's ok for nanny to hold in feelings, pretend she's great and smile to her employers and then talk badly about them and make them out to be horrible people instead of going to her MB/DH with her issues. Who'se the adult here?? None of you low grade childcare givers act professional. You complain 24.7 but don't go to your employers with your concerns and then whoopsy, nanny gets caught but she's the victim? Hahah.
Anonymous
Post 07/16/2013 21:32     Subject: Fairly confident my nanny has posted here recently

Anonymous wrote:You're going to fire her because .... of nothing? You *think* she posted on an anonymous forum but don't know that. So you're prepared to fire someone.

That's really shitty. And you want to fire her because ... she's not happy? Guess what? Sometimes EVERYONE is not happy with their job, but for the most part, we're happy to have a job, and we go in each day with a smile on our faces and a pleasant attitude. We do the best we can and then go home and vent in a safe place.

There's no job requirement that says you have to be happy and love your job.


When you pretend to be happy and act passive-aggressively then there will be resentful and it will boil over to the children you're caring for whether you admit it or not. If you're unhappy then discuss it with your employer like a professional ADULT!